BOXER & BRIEF STRAP-ON HARNESSES

No more straps, buckles, and adjustments interrupting your fun and killing the mood!

Slip into a pair of panties harness or brief underwear and you’ll be ready in a flash. Our panties harnesses are made by lesbians for lesbians. Visit our strapons for lesbians and lesbian sex toys to complete your set.

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  1. Boxer Black Harness XS to 5X for strap-on sex toys. Bestseller
    Boxer Black Underwear Strap-on Harness O'Ring & Packer - XS-5X
    $44.95 -10%
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  2. Boxer Brief Grey O'Ring Strap-On Harness XS-5X Bestseller
    Boxer Grey Underwear Strap-on Harness O'Ring & Packer - XS-5X
    $44.95 -10%
    $49.95 You save  $5
     
     
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  3. BRIEF HARNESS BEST QUALITY BLACK COUPLE STRAP-ON DILDO SEX TOY VIBRATING O RING VIBRATORS RINGS Bestseller
    Brief Underwear Strap-On Harness and Packer - Black - XS-5X
    $44.95 -10%
    $49.95 You save  $5
     
     
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  4. BRIEF HARNESS BLACK VIBRATOR RODEOH COUPLE STRAP-ON DILDO SEX TOY KIT FURNITURE MATERIAL LUBRICANT LEATHER HOLLOW BEADS Bestseller
    Pack Brief Harness Black XS-5XL + Strap-On Dildo Five
    $83.92 -20%
    $104.90 You save  $20.98
     
     
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  5. Best strap-ons for lesbians. Build Your Strap-on Kit : 1 Harness + 1  Strap-on 35% Off Bestseller
    Build Your Pack - Up to 35% Off : 1 Harness + 1 Strap-On + Accessories (optional)

    Starting at $72.44 Regular Price $124.90

     
     
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  6. HARNESS ADJUSTABLE O'RING BLACK PLUS SIZE DILDO STRAP-ON LESBIAN SEX TOYS
    StartHer™ Adjustable Harness with O'ring XS-5X
    $25.95
     
     
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  7. STRAP ON DILDO LESBIAN SEX TOY FIVE BLACK COUPLE HARNESS
    Pack Boxer Tomboii Black Harness XS-3X + Strap-On Dildo Five
    $166.41 -10%
    $184.90 You save  $18.49
     
     
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  8. TOMBOI O RING HARNESS SPAREPARTS STRAPON FOR LESBIAN SEX TOYS DILDO ANAL PLAY COUPLE KIT VIBRATORS RINGS REMOTE HEALTH
    Tomboi - Brief Harness by Spareparts
    $89.95
     
     
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  9. BELLA COUTURE LINGERIE O'RING HARNESS XS-3X
    Bella Lingerie Strap-On Harness with Garters - XS-3X
    $169.95
     
     
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  10. SASHA LINGERIE HARNESS VIBRATOR O RING STRAP-ON PLAY COUPLE MEN ANAL KIT DILDO SEX TOY
    Sasha O'Ring Lingerie Strap On Harness - Red or Black - XS-3X
    $159.95
     
     
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  11. STRAPON FOR LESBIAN SEX TOYS DILDO INCHES SEX TOY PRICE TOMBOI HARNESS SPAREPARTS O RING COUPLES G-SPOT VIBRATOR BONDAGE
    Pack Tomboi Brief harness Red Or Black XS-5X+ Strap-On Dildo Five
    $130.41 -10%
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  12. STRAP ON DILDO TOMBOI HARNESS SPAREPARTS VIBRATOR MEN ANAL COUPLE BONDAGE O RING SEX TOY VIBRATORS HOLLOW BEADS
    Pack harness Tomboi Brief Black XS-5X + Strap-On Dildo Fusion
    $137.61 -10%
    $152.90 You save  $15.29
     
     
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  13. STRAPON DILDO STABILIZER HARNESS SPAREPARTS DILDO  SPAREPARTS LESBIAN PLEASURE PENETRATION
    O-Ring Strap-on Dildo Stabilizer SpareParts
    $13.95
     
     
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FAQ

What’s a strapon harness and why do I need one?

If you have been questioning what is a strap on harness and why would I need one?, we have all the answers. A strap on harness is for when you want to enjoy strapon sex with your partner. There are several styles of harnesses that you can choose from, including: • Jockstrap: A jockstrap harness, as the name suggests, features a classic jockstrap design with straps that go around the waist and over each buttock. • Thong: A thong harness looks just like a thong and boasts a strap around the waist and one that goes between the legs and the buttocks. • Underwear: Finally, you have the underwear-style harness, which delivers the highest level of comfort out of all three harness styles. This type of harness looks just like a pair of briefs or boxers and can be worn all day or just during sex. Harnesses are an essential element of strapon sex as they allow you to penetrate, or be penetrated, without having to use your hands. They also enable you to experiment with different sexual positions as well as enjoy both vaginal and anal play. Here at Wetforher, we offer strapon harnesses that are specially designed for queer and lesbian couples, with options to suit all individual preferences and budgets.

What’s the best strapon harness?

If you are looking for the best strapon harness so that you and your partner can enjoy mind-blowing hands-free penetration, then look no further. While there is no one-size-fits-all approach to strap on sex toys, as everyone has different needs and desires, we offer strapon harnesses from some of the most trusted sex toy brands aimed at the LGBTQ community. The Tomboi Brief Harness is ideal for those that favor comfort above all else and want to be able to wear their harness underwear all day long. Available in a wide variety of sizes, including plus sizes, this is one of our best-selling strapon harnesses for lesbians. Alternatively, the Joque Strap On Harness boasts a more strappy and sexy design that is perfect for lesbians that want to proudly parade their harness in front of their partner. Whatever your sexual desires, you can find the perfect strapon harness when you browse our selection of harnesses made by lesbians for lesbians.

How can I find a comfortable strapon harness for me?

If you have searched for strapon harnesses online and you are concerned that they all look a little uncomfortable, you will be pleased to hear that we offer some of the most wearable strapons harnesses on the market. While traditional strapon harnesses tend to feature straps that go around your waist and underneath your legs and butt cheeks, you can now find a comfortable strapon harness that features no straps at all. Strapon brief and strapon boxer harnesses are specially designed to offer maximum comfort and fit snugly over your body in exactly the same way that your underwear does. These types of strapon harnesses are so comfortable that they can be worn all day, discreetly underneath your clothing, with no noticeable bulges. If you are worried about purchasing a strapon harness online only to find that it does not fit comfortably on you or your partner or doesn’t help you reach that dildo g spot, we offer returns on all our strapon harnesses so that you can enjoy peace of mind when you shop with us. Find an adjustable harness option today.

Do all strapon dildos fit all harnesses?

Some strapon harnesses can be used with a different dildo size and style, like a silicone dildo, for instance, while others can only be used with specific designs. Therefore, it is important that you pick a harness that is compatible with the dildo you intend to use. More specifically, you need to make sure that the base or ring on the harness is a size that will hold the dildo in place. You want to enjoy having sex, not worry about whether the dildo is in the right place or not. If you are planning to buy a strapon harness and dildo from a sex store, then you can easily try the two together to see if they are compatible. Remember that the dildo needs to fit snugly in the ring or base; otherwise, you will find strapon sex hard. If the dildo is too loose, then you need to find a harness with a smaller ring. Always ask experts, “is the harness compatible with your chosen dildo?” before purchasing. All our strapon dildos are compatible with our strapon harnesses so that you can experiment with as many different shapes, sizes, and styles of strapon dildos as you want! Whether you prefer a boxer or brief style harnesses, strapless strap on harnesses, hollow strap dildo harnesses, or one that features straps, you can choose whatever strapon dildo, whether that is from the dildo vibrator collection we have or double dildos, that you and your partner want to enjoy together. There is a selection of strap harnesses available and non-strap ones too!

How do I care for my strapon harness?

Strapon harnesses are easy to care for as most are machine washable. You should wash your strapon harness after every use to avoid any dirt or bacteria from coming into contact with your vagina and possibly causing an infection. It can be helpful to have more than one harness to allow for washing and drying time! Who says you can’t have multiple dildos and harnesses? If you are using a leather strapon harness, then this needs a little more TLC as you cannot simply pop this in your washing machine. Instead, clean your strapon harness with a bar of saddle soap and a soft-bristled brush. You also need to be wary of cracking or your harness becoming too stiff to use comfortably. Our selection of strapon harnesses for queer and lesbian couples are all easy to care for and can be machine-washed so that you can enjoy maximum sexual pleasure with minimal cleanup afterward. Always make sure that you read the care instructions on your chosen strapon harness and strapon dildo before washing to ensure that your sex toys stay in optimal condition for longer.

What’s the most hygienic strapon harness?

When it comes to sex, hygiene is an important factor for most couples. Fortunately, most strapon harnesses offer high levels of hygiene and safety. If you choose to wear an underwear-style strap on harness, these are typically made from cotton or nylon, which means they are machine washable. However, it can be a good idea to first place them in a lingerie bag so that they don’t become tangled with other items of clothing. You should never place your strapon harness in the dryer as this can damage the fabric and prevent the harness from being able to securely hold the dildo in place. Air dry it instead to extend its life. All our harnesses are machine washable so that you don’t have to worry about choosing the most hygienic strapon harness for you and your partner to enjoy – they are all hygienic so long as you properly wash and dry them.

Which harness is right for me?

If you favor comfort above all else, then a boxer or brief-style strapon harness is the obvious choice. These are designed in the style of normal underwear and are so comfortable that they can be worn all day without any chaffing or visible bumps. However, it is worth noting that these do not always give you as much control as other styles of harnesses. So if you want to be certain that you hold control, opting for another type could be beneficial. If you want to be in the moment and more spontaneous about sex, then these are perfect as you can wear them all day like normal underwear, and then if you both feel like it, you can get down to business when it is just the two of you. If you don’t feel like this is the right one for you, then one of our most popular underwear-style harness brands is Tomboi which designs boxer and brief strapon harnesses in breathable fabrics that are both lightweight and comfortable to wear. Plus, these are double dildo compatible and suitable for packing – meaning your next weekend away just got more exciting. If you have been considering investing in a double dildo, now is the perfect time to buy one of these harnesses. Strapon harnesses that feature straps that go around your waist and underneath your legs and butt cheeks are a good option for women that prefer a more “look at me” strapon sex experience. These also offer more control when it comes to thrusting, which is important for some queer and lesbian couples. Joque Strap On Harnesses are a popular choice for queer and lesbian couples who want a harness that features straps but still want a simple setup that does not require much adjustment. If you need any more help in choosing the perfect strapon harness to enhance your sex life, our team of sexperts are on hand to offer you support and advice. Remember, all our sex toys and accessories are made by lesbians for lesbians, so you know you are in safe hands when you select us as your sex toy supplier of choice!
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If you are looking for underwear for strap-on fun that delivers hands-free satisfaction and guarantees to improve your sex life, then look no further. We offer an extensive range of strap-on harness underwear for lesbian couples, including plus size strap ons, panties with dildos, and harness underwear complete with the latest sex toy.

Our underwear for strapons designs come in a wide variety of sizes and styles, with strap on dildos to deliver all kinds of penetrative pleasure. If you are not sure what size you should order, take a look at our Size Guide, which will help you select the right underwear strap-on for your body.

When it comes to choosing the perfect strap-on underwear, the most important thing to focus on is fit. Whether you choose boxer harness, brief harness, or panty dildos, strap-on underwear should fit snugly around your body and support the weight of your chosen dildo without any discomfort.

Make sure to get comfortable with your strap-on underwear and dildo If you are new to using strap-on underwear it can be a good idea to get used to wearing your strap-on underwear and dildo combination around the house while you are doing non-sexual things. Wear it while washing up, cleaning the house or while watching TV. Get used to the feeling of having a dildo attached to your body and how it feels as you move around. The more comfortable and natural the strap-on underwear and dildo feel the greater confidence you will have when it’s time to get sexual with your partner.

Try Masturbating while wearing your strap-on underwear and dildo Once your housework is done and you’re looking for a bit of solo pleasure and relaxation, try masturbating while wearing your strap-on underwear and dildo. Get used to the feeling of the dildo by touching it while you pleasure yourself. The more connected you feel to your strap-on underwear and dildo the more pleasurable it will be when you are with your partner!

Try not to go overboard with your thrusting! Thrusting during penetrative sex can feel supremely weird to begin with if you are not used to doing it. There can be a tendency to overdo it and go overboard with the motions, maybe in a comical way which is probably not what you are going for unless you are in the mood for a giggle. Instead, get used to slow, subtle and purposeful thrusting movements until you get comfortable with a thrusting action and of course, once you are there you can make it your own and do what makes you and your partner feel good

All our strap-on underwear harnesses are comfortable, durable, machine washable, and packer friendly. The Tomboi briefs by SpareParts offer an athletic androgynous cut, while boxer briefs provide full coverage. Slip a bullet vibrator into one of the harness pockets and send vibrations down the dildo. Ride your way to ecstasy with a strap-on harness that hugs your curves so you can steer with precision.

If you favor a more lipstick style, the Sasha or Bella lingerie harness will make a gorgeous complement to your wardrobe. Whatever your style, we have something to suit your needs. If you just want to give the style a try, have a little fun with our dildo underwear or if you want to save a little money, Pack Gear is the perfect strap-on harness underwear to get started. They offer good quality at the lowest price on the market. They’ll perform wonderfully provided you don’t put an overly large sex toy in them.

Looking to invest in a higher quality strap-on, have a look at the Spareparts Hardwear brand of harness underwear. Spareparts Hardwear harnesses offer quality that will last for years, making them an investment that you’ll never regret.

Here at Wet For Her, we are experts in queer and lesbian sex toys and are at the forefront of sexual innovation for the LGBTQIA+ community. Whether you are looking for a comfortable brief strap-on or something a little more racy, you won’t find a better range of strap-on harness kits for queer and lesbian sex anywhere else.

Need help using your brand new strap on harness? Check out our How to Use a Strap On Guide, with helpful advice and tips for beginners and experts alike. We guarantee to help you experience waves upon waves of orgasmic pleasure.