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4.7
Rated 4.7 out of 5 stars
533 Reviews

RideHer™ Boxer Underwear Strap-On Harness

$46.75 $54.95 15% off

Boxer O-Ring Harness: Play Boldly and Move Freely—No Straps Required

Designed for those who take charge in the bedroom, this underwear-style harness is destined to become your go-to for confident, no-nonsense play. With a strategically placed O-ring, these... Show More +

Size Inclusive
Flexible O-Ring
Machine Washable
Bullet Vibe Pocket
Size: XS-S
Color: Black
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Materials:

Fabric: 95% Cotton, 5% Spandex

Elastic Band: 55% Nylon, 45% Spandex

Return:

Eligible for return if product is new, unworn, and outer packaging in perfect condition.

The Boxer O-Ring Harness by Wet For Her combines bold design with everyday ease, offering endless ways to pack, play, and turn up the heat. Front and center is the sturdy 1.3” O-ring, built to keep your favorite dildo locked in place and give you total control over every thrust.

Made from a soft, stretchy cotton-spandex blend, these boxers hug your body like they were tailor-made. Whether you’re gearing up for action or just wearing them out and about, the supportive 1.75” waistband keeps you ready no matter where the day (or night) takes you. 

But we didn’t stop there. The inner flaps behind the O-ring unlock even more possibilities. Keep them closed to focus all your attention on your partner, or open them up to experience the pulse-pounding sensations of a Pleasure Base dildo or a double dildo.

To make things even hotter, we added two pockets above and below the O-ring, perfect for bullet vibrators. Because who says you can’t get off while driving your partner wild?

Available in sizes XS to 5X, these boxers are made to fit every body. If you’re between sizes, choose the smaller size for a secure, no-slip fit. Easy to clean and machine washable, the Boxer O-Ring Harness is built to keep up with all your adventures. 

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Boxer/Brief Size Guide

Hip or low waist measurement:
Stand on a level surface with feet together. Measure around fullest part of hips and bottom (approximately 18 cm - 22 cm below high waistline). It is the largest part of your lower waist.

TIP: if you are between two sizes, choose the smaller size. The boxer/brief needs to fit snugly to your body.

Size Low Waist/Hip (in) Low Waist/Hip (cm) EU UK
XS-S 27-32" 69-81 34-36 8-12
M-L 33-36 84-91 38-42 12-16
L-XL 37-44 94-112 42-46 16-18
XL-2X 44-47 112-119 46-50 18-20
2X-3X 47-52 119-132 50-54 20-22
4X-5X 52-60 132-150 54-58 22-24
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Compatible with

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BumpHer Dildo Base Cover

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
WondHer - Bendable Strap-On Dildo View 1

WondHer Bendable Strap-On Dildo

$50.95 $59.95 15% OFF
Rainbow Bullet Vibrator 2.0 View 1

Rainbow Bullet Vibrator 2.0

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
Pride Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Pride Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Lesbian Delight Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Lesbian Delight Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Purple Kiss Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Purple Kiss Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Rainbow Strap-On Dildo View 1

Rainbow Strap-On Dildo

$44.95 $49.95 10% OFF
Water-Based Lube - Organic & Cruelty-Free View 1

Water-Based Lube Organic & Cruelty-Free

$6.95 $9.95 30% OFF
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Take charge in the bedroom

Reinforced O-ring

The sturdy 1.3” O-ring is built to keep your favorite dildo locked in place and give you total control over every thrust.

Stretchy cotton blend

Made from a soft, stretchy cotton blend, they mean no more fumbling with annoying straps.

Dual bullet pockets

The two pockets above and below the O-ring let you slide in bullet vibrators and have your own fun while taking your partner to the edge.

How to Use RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness

4.7
Rated 4.7 out of 5 stars
Based on 533 reviews
Total 5 star reviews: 433 Total 4 star reviews: 76 Total 3 star reviews: 10 Total 2 star reviews: 3 Total 1 star reviews: 11
95%would recommend these products
Reviews Summary
Customers say these boxer harnesses are extremely comfortable and much easier to use than traditional strap harnesses. Many appreciate the soft, stretchy material and how secure the design keeps toys in place. Common feedback includes that they run small, with most recommending sizing up one or two sizes for proper fit. Users find them well-made and durable, though some mention the ring opening can be tight initially. Many reviews mention the comfort allows for extended wear and better control during use. Some note the fabric stretches during activity, occasionally affecting stability. Several customers praise the minimalist design and prefer it over traditional harness straps.
533 reviews
  • CG Profile picture for caitlyn g.google logo
    caitlyn g.
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    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    12 hours ago
    super comfortable but you do need to wash it every time

    it is very very comfortable but do keep in mind you will have to wash it every time but it fits so well and all the pockets are so useful

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    Wet For Her
    3 minutes ago

    Thanks so much for the 5 stars and this amazing review, Caitlyn! 💜
    Those pockets really are a game-changer for convenience and functionality - it sounds like you're discovering all the thoughtful design features we built in 🔥 We totally appreciate your honest heads up about the washing after each use - that's exactly the kind of real-world insight that helps other customers know what to expect for care and maintenance! Thanks for taking the time to share such helpful and honest feedback about both what's amazing and what to keep in mind! 😉

  • EC
    erika c.
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    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    5 days ago
    Great product

    It’s amazint

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    Wet For Her
    4 days ago

    Erika, we're so happy to hear you think the RideHer™ Boxer is amazing! 🔥 There's nothing better than when a harness fits just right and delivers exactly what you're looking for. Thanks for the awesome review and those perfect 5 stars! 💜✨

  • HT
    Holly T.
    Verified Buyer
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    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    1 week ago
    Great fit

    These fit great easy to use and wash. The only down side would be that the fabric around the ring needs to be reinforced. And maybe I just using it to much. I will need to buy more back-ups soon.

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    Wet For Her
    1 week ago

    Thanks so much for the 5 stars and honest feedback, Holly! 💜 We're thrilled to hear the RideHer Boxer fits great and is easy to use and wash - that's exactly what we were going for with the design! We really appreciate you sharing the insight about the fabric around the ring, that's super valuable feedback for us about durability. And hey, sounds like you're definitely getting your money's worth out of it! 😉 Thanks for taking the time to share both what's working perfectly and what could be even stronger! 🔥

  • KG
    Katie G.
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    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    2 weeks ago
    💙💚

    Work great and was more comfortable than my last harness

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    Wet For Her
    1 week ago

    Thank you for your amazing review, Katie! 💙💚 We're so thrilled to hear the RideHer Boxer is more comfortable than your previous harness - comfort is such a game changer and we're really proud of how the design turned out! It's wonderful to know it's working great for you. Thanks for those perfect 5 stars and for sharing your experience! ✨💜

  • JB
    Joseph B.
    Verified Buyer
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    RideHer™ Boxer - Underwear Strap-On Harness
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Transmasc
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    2 weeks ago
    Love it

    Love it, great for using with a packer or dildo

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    Wet For Her
    2 weeks ago

    When you're finding the RideHer Boxer works amazing for both packing and play, that's exactly the versatility this harness is designed to deliver! 🔥 The comfortable underwear-style design makes it perfect for all-day wear with a packer and seamlessly transitions to incredible experiences with your favorite dildo! There's nothing better than having that one go-to piece that handles everything you need it to! Thanks for those perfect 5 stars, Joseph, and for sharing how much you're loving the dual functionality ✨