How do I clean my sex toy?
Maintaining the cleanliness of your sex toy will ensure the lifespan and shelf life of your toy. Cleaning your sex toy is easy! We recommended investing in a natural foam sex toy cleaner to avoid those scary chemicals and phthalate residue. There are tons on the market, but generally, you’re going to want to try to pay attention to the type of material your sex toys is as this will determine the means and measures for cleaning. Glass, metal, and silicone sex toys are usually nonporous and can be cleaned just fine with soap and water or a toy cleaner. Squirt a few pumps onto your toy, rinse with warm water if your dildo is waterproof, or wipe down with some baby wipes or a clean damp cloth. Never submerge your sex toy fully in water if it’s not waterproof! Remember to clean your sex toy after every use to prevent the buildup of bacteria and to also prevent infections.
How do I choose the right sex toy for me?
Choosing the right sex toys for your couple all depends on what you are seeking out for your pleasure! Will you be using this sex toy for solo masturbation? With a partner? As a strap on? It’s also important to consider the type of stimulation you are looking to experience. Are you focusing on G-spot stimulation? Anal stimulation? Maybe you're choosing to stimulate the P-spot around your prostate or even add some clitoral stimulation into the mix as well. Once you decide the type of stimulation and experience you are seeking with your sex toy, you can start to browse Wet for Her’s best lesbians sex toy selections! Wet for Her carries strapless, squirting, G-spot, anal, metal, and glass dildos as well as a variety of strap-on dildos for you to choose from!
What materials are sex toys and dildos made out of?
From silicone, vinyl, glass, metal, crystal, latex, and even jelly rubber, sex toys an dildos come in a variety of materials, all of which mostly determine the type of sexual play you’ll be engaging in. For example, glass dildos are great for anal play and G-spot stimulation thanks to their smooth texture and easiness to clean.
Are there any materials which are better than others?
It’s important to note that dildos are porous or nonporous depending on the type of material they are made from. Porous materials, such as latex, jelly rubber, or vinyl dildos carry microscopic holes which penetrate the material. They can carry residue and bacteria even after being cleaned, which is a huge no-no! Some materials also contain phthalates, or a group of chemicals added to toys to increase flexibility. Don’t let them fool you! Just a warning, phthalates are inherently toxins to the body! Add a dildo that is also porous and you’re asking for a visit to the doctor.
On the flip side, non-porous materials, such as glass, metal, or silicone, do not carry these microscopic holes and are safe for use even after cleaning. They do not pose a risk to body health if cleaned regularly after every use. This is why Wet for Her offers dildos made from these quality materials, such as 100% medical grade silicone to ensure all products are phthalate-free while providing a silky texture that is easy to clean and maintain.
What size should I get? How do I choose the perfect sex toys size?
Using a sex toy can take some getting used to, especially if you don’t have much experience in penetration. We suggest beginning with something on the smaller side to make insertion a little less strenuous. Dildos can range in sizes as little as 4 inches and as large as 18 inches. It’s important to pay attention to the measurements of the product before you buy your new sex toy. If you’re still not sure what you’ll be working with, use a ruler or a sizing guide to test things out. We recommend starting off with about 5 inches to get a feel for it and move on from there!
Whether you’re focusing on some solo play or incorporating a partner into the fun, there are so many benefits to using a sex toy!
They are incredibly versatile and they can be an awesome addition to foreplay and sex. Sex toys and dildos help to get you aroused before penetration. Having sex with a sex toy can be incredibly pleasurable, especially if you prefer internal stimulation. Did I mention they are versatile? Many strap-on sex toys come with a suction-cup base which makes them ideal for hands-free play and some can be used with a strap-on harness if you prefer to get hot with your partner. No matter what you’re using them for, sex toy and dildos can provide a whirlwind of fun for the first-timer.
So you’ve invested in yourself and bought your very first sex toy through Wet for Her. Now what? Well, the answer is pretty straightforward, but we understand that trying out a sex toy for the first time can be quite intimidating. No worries! We are here to help!
It is wise to take things slow and easy at first. This means starting with a dildo size that won’t be too intense. We want a wow not an ow, right? We recommend starting with a small size and building your way up as your experience with sex toy play grows.
How to insert a sex toy:
Step 1: Lube up!
You want to make sure you're ready to receive your new sex toy by being sexually aroused. You can start by lubing up your sex toys by putting lube on the tip of the shaft and working your way down with your hands.
Step 2: Take your time and explore
Start slowly and allow yourself some time to get used to the sex toy around your genitals. If you are planning on using it in your vagina or for G-spot stimulation, try some external stimulation before penetration by rubbing the dildo gently along your labia and against your clitoris. This will “warm you up” by increasing sexual arousal and blood flow to your genitals. As for anal penetration, also begin with slow stimulation around the anus, butt cheeks, and perineum. This will help to prepare the anus for penetration. Don’t forget your lube! Some pro tips for safety: make sure your sex toys has a tapered end, you’ve used the bathroom beforehand (trust me on this one), and avoid using your sex toy on any other area once it has been inserted into the anus. And for the love of all that is pleasurable, don’t forget to clean your dildo afterwards!
Step 3: Insert your dildo and start exploring some more!
Insert your dildo into your vagina or anus one inch at a time by spreading your labia or your buttcheeks gently. If your partner is around, feel free to ask them for assistance! Remain curious and start exploring to see what feels good. Take things slow and build it up gradually by inserting more of the dildo as you progress. Remember this is your time to shine so don’t be afraid! To get some awesome results with your new dildo, try thrusting it in an angle against the front wall of the vagina once you’ve gotten the rhythm down to stimulate your G-spot. Or alternatively, for those of us with prostates, you can try to stimulate the front wall of the anus in the same manner. If anytime throughout your playtime you feel yourself going dry, don’t hesitate to add more lube!
Do I need to use lube with my sex toy?
We definitely recommend using lubricant the first go around (and hey, even each time if you’re about that) to enhance pleasure, sensation, and ease of the toy. Let’s just say it -- lube and sex toys are like peanut butter and jelly. You can never have “too much” lube, especially when trying out a new dildo.
Do I need to consider a sex toy shape or size?
This depends on the type of sexual play you want to engage in. Ultimately, you’re going to want to find the ideal size for yourself. Sex toys range from all sorts of sizes ranging from 4 inches to 18 inches! If you need assistance choosing the right size for yourself or a partner, you can refer to our beginner guide here: https://www.wetforher.com/newbies
As for shape, sex toys can come curved, straight, and they can even be doubled! We recommend doing research on the types of sex toys you are interested in and go from there with some experimentation. It really is all about experience and seeing what suits your needs best!
Why choose a multi-functioning dildo? (Vibrating, suction, etc.)
To increase variety, versatility, and to help boost fun into your sexual life! Multi-functioning dildos can be used to increase and maintain pleasure in a lot of different ways that your normal dildo can’t.
Suction dildos can be attached to surfaces for riding and vibrating dildos help increase sexual arousal by adding a little spice to your sexual play!
Check out our bestseller: https://www.wetforher.com/strap-on-dildo-five-purple-5-1-inch.html
What is the purpose of a packer?
A packer is a phallic shaped object that is worn inside the underwear of the user to give off the appearance of a bulge or having a penis.
What is a packer dildo / Pack 'n Play?
Some packers can double as dildos (also known as a "Pack n' Play") and tend to be incredibly versatile and useful. A packer dildo is simply a dildo that doubles as a packer. They can be tucked or untucked and boast a realistic texture, feel, and look like a penis. They often have a firm enough core for penetration, but a soft enough exterior for packing.
Check out Wet For Her's selection of Pack n' Plays:
Shilo Pack n' Play Dildo and Packer
Carter Pack n' Play Dildo and Packer
Goodfella Pack n' Play Dildo and Packer
What is a STP (stand to pee) packer? Do they work?
STP (stand to pee) packers are devices that act as a funnel to help people urinate without sitting down. They are meant to aid in transitioning and can help people get the feel of using the bathroom while standing up. Yes, they do work! Albeit, they require quite a bit of practice getting used to them. Some people swear by them, while others find them too difficult to use. Don’t let that deter you though! STPs are fully practical, functional, and you can 100% teach yourself to use them as most do come with in depth instructions.
We recommend practicing in the shower with them where cleaning up is easier. Remember to be patient with yourself and your body if it is your first time using a STP. Some people end up not using them out of comfortability, while others prefer to use them to ease navigating public restrooms.
Our STP, the “Sam”,
is available on our site and is created from soft silicone and fits inside regular underwear or packing underwear.
Can a packer be used as a sex toy?
Not all packers can be used as dildos. Unless otherwise indicated, most packers have a core that is not quite firm enough to be effectively used for penetration. Even so, packers are great for grinding, dry humping and foreplay!
However, some packers can double as sex toys (also known as a "Pack n' Play") and tend to be incredibly versatile and useful. They can be tucked or untucked and boast a realistic texture, feel, and look like a penis. Our Shiloh, Carter and Goodfella pack n' plays double as dildos. Check them out on the Wet for Her website here:
Shilo Pack n' Play Dildo and Packer
Carter Pack n' Play Dildo and Packer
Goodfella Pack n' Play Dildo and Packer
Are packers safe to wear while swimming?
Yes, packers are safe to wear while swimming and are a great way to validate your body while enjoying yourself. Our packers are made from silicone and are 100% waterproof. Adjust them with a speedo or some packing underwear and you should be fine and dandy! If you want to be extra secure the next time you go swimming or if it's your first time wearing a packer while swimming, we recommend using packing underwear and some breathable swimming trunks.
What kind of underwear will I need for packing?
You can use packing underwear, which is underwear specially designed to hold packers and STPs. Regular underwear will work just fine too, just make sure it's tight enough to securely hold your packer without much fuss. Additionally, you can consider getting enhanced underwear, a type of underwear meant to enhance bulges. This can be a great way to practice having a bulge without a packer and even add on to your current packer.
What different kinds of packers are there?
Packers come in a variety of shapes, looks, and feels. Packers can come with an uncircumcised look, with foreskin, or can appear erect as dildos. Check out our packers here!
What is the best way to clean a packer or STP?
Packers and STPs can be cleaned with a sex toy cleanser, preferably one that is phthalate and paraben free. You can also use an antibacterial soap and warm water to wash it off and wipe it down with a clean cloth.
How can I match my color?
Matching your color can be intimidating, as there tend to be various options for color matching, but we got you covered! You’ll want to match the color by looking at either large parts of your body, such as your legs, arms, and abdomen. Select which color matches you best and go from there. Our packers come in a range of colors, from cashew, caramel, hazelnut, and chocolate.
Do packers come in different positions?
Packers can be placed inside your underwear for everyday use or can be used as a sex toy for erect models, or those that are dildos. They should be positioned in the front of your crotch. They usually come as soft or erect.
You’ll want to decide whether you will be needing packing underwear to help keep your packer in place. Of course, regular underwear, such as boy shorts or boxer briefs will work great too, but some individuals prefer the extra padding and support to maintain the packer in place. Some prefer a lower profile packer holding harness
that can be worn underneath your underwear or without underwear. Once you have found the optimal pair of underwear for yourself, you’re going to want to adjust your packer correctly so it is not positioned too high or too low. Aligning the base of your packer with the base of your sweet spot would work best. Try practicing wearing your packer around your house for starters. Eventually, you can start building up your confidence with your packer by running errands while wearing it and then wearing it in public whenever you’re ready!