Posts tagged 'harness'

This Isn’t Your First RodeoH

For folks who love strap-on sex, a harness can become something of a second skin. Harnesses and Double-Dildos offer hands-free intimacy and pleasure to both parties. However, more than just sex toys, strap-ons can open whole new arenas for sexual play on an individual and partnered level.

If you’re new to strap-on sex, check out our Strap-Ons: Where To Start? post for tips on buying and using your first harness. This is also a great guide to get a sense of the variety available if you want to switch up your harness style

Strap-on play has come a long way since the 1980s, when the only available harnesses were big, bulky, uncomfortable, and complicated. Between the expensive leather harnesses with buckles, awkward looking plastic harnesses, and affordable (but flimsy) washable harnesses, the choices women today have are varied – but very few of those styles have been designed by actual harness users. As a result, despite the variety available in harnesses, many women steer away from using a harness with their partners, because they find the overwhelming number of options confusing.

Thankfully, times have changed, and Wet For Her® is pleased to help you learn about the new generation of harnesses!

Form Follows Function

Strap-on play is a great way to bring a little something extra into your sex life. Despite the antiquated stigma that dildos are just a means for lesbians to “imitate” heterosexual sex, strap-ons are used and beloved by basically every relationship configuration, gender, and sexual orientation. No group of sexual identities has a monopoly on penetrative pleasure! If the idea of playing with a strap-on turns you on, then it’s a toy meant for you.

Variety Is The Spice Of Life

Just like diamonds, snowflakes, and sea shells, each vagina is singularly unique. The variety of dildos available on the market is a true reflection of this diversity. While having options is a wonderful privilege, it can also be overwhelming if you aren’t certain exactly which match will best light your fire.