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4.9
Rated 4.9 out of 5 stars
469 Reviews

StrapHer™ Adjustable Jock Style Strap-on Harness

$80.47 $114.95 30% off

The StrapHer™, our bestseller, is designed with queer couples in mind; this harness combines security, comfort, and versatility in one sleek design. With adjustable straps... Show More +

Flexible O-Ring
Bullet Vibe Pocket
Machine Washable
Size Inclusive
Size: S-3X
Color: Black
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Highlights

  1. Fully adjustable thigh and waist straps 📏
  2. Ideal for Grinding Base dildos 🍆
  3. Inner pocket for an extra vibe bullet 🐇

Details

Features:

  • Flexible o-ring 🤸
  • Machine washable 🧼
  • High quality construction 💪

Details:

  • Compatible with flat-base dildos 🍆
  • Classic, sleek design with a body-hugging fit 🪞
  • Low Maintenance 🔧

Return:

We accept returns of harnesses within 14 days of delivery. The product box must be in perfect condition, completely closed and sealed. If you have any questions about the size you have chosen, please consult the size guide and check your measurements before ordering or opening the item.

Materials & Care

Materials:

Made of polyester. Its 4-way adjustable straps fit US dress sizes 4-22 or up to 60” (152 cm) hips.

Care Instructions:

Machine wash the harness in cold water with like colors, preferably in a delicate bag. Air dry or tumble dry on low heat.

Compatible with

BumpHer - Dildo Base Cover View 1

BumpHer Dildo Base Cover

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
Rainbow 2.0 - Our Bullet Vibrator stuns ✨ View 1

Rainbow 2.0 Our Bullet Vibrator st...

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
Beanze Sunrise - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base View 1

Beanze Sunrise Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$47.95 $59.95 20% OFF
Fusion Vibe 2.0 - Vibrating Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Fusion Vibe 2.0 Vibrating Strap-On Dil...

$67.95 $84.95 20% OFF
Long Black Bullet - Vibrator  2.0 View 1

Long Black Bullet Vibrator 2.0

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
Milo Feelskin™ - Pack N Play with FTM Stroker Base View 1

Milo Feelskin™ Pack N Play with FTM S...

$67.95 $79.95 15% OFF
Lesbian Delight Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Lesbian Delight Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Comze 2.0 - Vibrating Bendable Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base® View 1

Comze 2.0 Vibrating Bendable Str...

$67.95 $84.95 20% OFF
Pride Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Pride Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Shagger - Dildo Base Cover Cushion View 1

Shagger Dildo Base Cover Cushion

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
Sex On The Beach Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Sex On The Beach Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
O-Ring Strap-on Dildo Stabilizer View 1

O-Ring Strap-on Dildo Stabilizer

$14.95

StrapHer Jock Harness by Wet For Her

Hip or low waist measurement:
Stand on a level surface with feet together. Measure around fullest part of hips and bottom (approximately 18 cm - 22 cm below high waistline). It is the largest part of your lower waist.

TIP: if you are between two sizes, choose the smaller size. The boxer/brief needs to fit snugly to your body.

Size Low waist US Europe/UK/Australia
S-3X 20" - 50" 50.8 cm - 127 cm 6-16 8-18
L-5X 35" - 65" 88.9 cm - 165.1 cm 10-20 12-22
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By LGBTQ+ Women
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Compatible with

BumpHer - Dildo Base Cover View 1

BumpHer Dildo Base Cover

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
Rainbow 2.0 - Our Bullet Vibrator stuns ✨ View 1

Rainbow 2.0 Our Bullet Vibrator st...

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
Beanze Sunrise - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base View 1

Beanze Sunrise Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$47.95 $59.95 20% OFF
Fusion Vibe 2.0 - Vibrating Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Fusion Vibe 2.0 Vibrating Strap-On Dil...

$67.95 $84.95 20% OFF
Long Black Bullet - Vibrator  2.0 View 1

Long Black Bullet Vibrator 2.0

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
Milo Feelskin™ - Pack N Play with FTM Stroker Base View 1

Milo Feelskin™ Pack N Play with FTM S...

$67.95 $79.95 15% OFF
Lesbian Delight Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Lesbian Delight Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Comze 2.0 - Vibrating Bendable Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base® View 1

Comze 2.0 Vibrating Bendable Str...

$67.95 $84.95 20% OFF
Pride Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Pride Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
Shagger - Dildo Base Cover Cushion View 1

Shagger Dildo Base Cover Cushion

$35.95 $39.95 10% OFF
Sex On The Beach Fusion - Strap-On Dildo with Grinding Base™ View 1

Sex On The Beach Fusion Strap-On Dildo with Gr...

$55.20 $64.95 15% OFF
O-Ring Strap-on Dildo Stabilizer View 1

O-Ring Strap-on Dildo Stabilizer

$14.95
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Supportive where it counts

Fully adjustable

The StrapHer has fully adjustable waist and thigh straps that ensure a secure, comfortable fit that won’t budge, no matter how intense the action gets.

Flexible O-ring

Designed with versatility in mind, the flexible O-ring keeps your favorite toy steady, giving you the freedom to explore any thrilling position.

Dual bullet pockets

Dual bullet vibrator pockets allow you to effortlessly add extra stimulation exactly where you want it.

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Summary
Best maneuverability and fit with a soft, breathable fabric
Comfortable enough for everyday wear and packing
Discreet under clothes, bold under the sheets
Beginner-friendly, no-frills harness
O-Ring Size
Fits 1" – 1.75" diameter dildos
Fits 1" – 1.75" diameter dildos
Fits 1" – 1.75" diameter dildos
Fits 1" - 1.75" diameter dildos.
Size / Fit Range
XS - 5X
2” velcro waistband and 4 adjustable straps
XS - 5X
1.75" elastic waistband makes for a snug, secure fit
XS - 5X
1.75" elastic waistband makes for a snug, secure fit
US 4–22
Fits up to 60" (152cm) hips with 4 adjustable straps
Vibe Pockets
2 Inner Pockets
2 Inner Pockets
2 Inner Pockets
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Cleaning / Care
Machine Washable
Machine Washable
Machine Washable
Machine Washable
Materials

Made of polyester. Its 4-way adjustable straps fit US dress sizes 4-22 or up to 60” (152 cm) hips.

Fabric:

  • 95% Cotton
  • 5% Spandex

Elastic Band:

  • 55% Nylon
  • 45% Spandex

Fabric:

  • 95% Cotton
  • 5% Spandex

Elastic Band:

  • 55% Nylon
  • 45% Spandex

Fabric: Polyester

4.9
Rated 4.9 out of 5 stars
Based on 469 reviews
100%would recommend this product
Reviews Summary
Customers say this harness is incredibly comfortable and easy to adjust, with many praising its secure fit that stays in place during use. The jock-style design eliminates loose straps, and the velcro waistband makes it simple to put on and remove. Users appreciate the quality material, machine-washable construction, and versatile sizing that accommodates different body types. Common feedback highlights excellent stability for toys and minimal shifting. Some note the thigh straps can feel snug for plus-size wearers, and a few mention the O-ring size is fixed. Overall, customers find it a significant upgrade from traditional boxer-style harnesses.
469 reviews
  • DS
    Danielle S.
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    3 hours ago
    super comfy

    felt like wearing underwear and nothing was digging in. super impressed

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    Wet For Her
    13 minutes ago

    Thank you for your 5-star review on our Jock Harness, Danielle! A harness should never pinch, chafe, or distract you from the moment and it should feel just like your favorite pair of undies while keeping your setup totally locked down. We are thrilled it blew you away! Thank you so much for the love and for taking the time to share your experience! ✨

  • EM
    Emma M.
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    8 hours ago
    Incredible harness, a must buy!

    The easiest and most comfortable strap-on harness I’ve ever own! My girl was surprised and delighted by how fast she put it on. No break needed during action, we could go right to the main course thanks to this masterpiece. I can’t wait to try it on her next time. Thank you WETFORHER! ♡

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    Wet For Her
    9 minutes ago

    Thank you for another 5-star review on our StrapHer Jock Harness, Emma! There is truly nothing worse than fussy buckles killing the vibe, so hearing that she slipped it on in seconds and took you straight to the main course without missing a beat is everything. We also love that switch energy! Have the absolute best time turning the tables on her next round! Thank you so much for the love and for sharing your experience! ✨

  • AB
    Amanda B.
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    10 hours ago
    Very Comfortable!

    Fits extremely well! No pinching at all. Everything stays in place, even when things get intense. For a bigger girl I’ve been let down with other harnesses… both traditional and the shorts variety. This one does not disappoint!! (I opted for the larger of the two sizes btw)

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    Wet For Her
    5 minutes ago

    Thank you for yet another 5-star review on our Jock Harness, Amanda! Every body deserves gear that feels secure, comfortable, and completely pinch-free no matter how intense things get. We are so thrilled the larger size gave you that flawless fit without any letdowns. Thank you so much for the love and for sharing your sizing tip with the community! 💜✨

  • KI
    Katherine I.
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Something else
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Yesterday
    Sturdy

    Great harness! Didn't move, good stability. Forgot it was there, which is what you want from a harness

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    Wet For Her
    20 hours ago

    Thank you for your 5-star review on our Strapher Jock Harness, Katherine! Total stability with zero distractions is exactly the dream! We're so glad it stayed firmly in place and let you focus entirely on the fun. Thanks so much for the fantastic feedback! ✨

  • P
    Pi
    Verified Buyer
    I recommend this product
    What is your gender? Female
    Type of use? Couple Use
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Yesterday
    So cunty 🙊

    Loveeee

    This looks fabulous on anyone! So practical, so fun, so cool! It is and forever will be my favorite! So happy I get to support a wlw business in the mean while

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    Wet For Her
    20 hours ago

    Thank you for your 5-star review on our Jock Harness, Pi! Reading this fills our hearts with so much queer joy! Knowing that our harness makes you feel cool, confident, and fabulous, and that it has officially earned the title of your forever favorite is the highest praise we could ever ask for. Thank you so much for the love and for fiercely supporting a WLW-owned business; community members like you make everything we do possible! 💜✨