How to choose and use your Dildo

How to choose and use your Dildo

Get Ready For A Fun Learning Curve

Your first dildo is a rite of passage, but the number of choices involved in purchasing can be overwhelming. Once you’ve made it through the seemingly infinite sizes, shapes and variations -- the real science experiment begins when you start discovering your own body in totally new ways. Get ready to know thyself.

To Buzz, Or Not To Buzz, That Is The Question

Deciding if you want a vibrating dildo or a more stoic member is just the first of many criteria you’ll need to decide. Some dildos, like the Wet for Her Double Dildo Four, offer the best of both worlds with bullet vibe compatibility, offering a boost of sensation.

Once that’s out of the way you’ll need to consider aesthetic. Realistic veins or synthetic texture? Do you want your toy to match your (or your partner’s) skin tone or do brightly-colored toys pique your interest?

Is this a toy for just you, or you and a playmate? Double dildos can be intimidating if it’s your first rodeo, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t jump on that bull. The Wet for Her Union is a great example of a toy that works for one or two. If it feels clumsy, try pairing it with a harness or O-Ring Stabilizer for added support.

Whatever you choose, make sure you prioritize quality ingredients. Medical-grade silicone from trustworthy manufacturers is safe and easy to clean. Glass and metal are fun if you enjoy the temperature-retaining qualities and heft these materials offer. Silicone is only compatible with water-based lubricants, so if you prefer silicone or oil-based formulas you should explore glass and metal mediums. Use a quality toy cleaner when possible, or hot water and a body-safe soap to clean between play. 

A Bird In Hand Is Worth Two In The Bush (And Other Ways To Play)

Once you’ve chosen your toy, then the real fun begins. Take your time and play with different rhythms and movements until you find what makes sense for your body. A majority of your vagina’s sensitive nerve endings are in the first third, so a lot of pleasure can be had stimulating this area and the vulva. Just because you have a seven inch dildo doesn’t mean you need to use all of it immediately!

Of course, once you’re ready to take the plunge, deeper penetration has its benefits. If your chosen dildo has a bit of a sensual curve to it, you may find it hits your G-spot. If this eludes you, don’t worry; there’s still a great deal of intense sensations to be had from deep penetrative play. If you’re playing with a partner, consider a model like the Wet For Her Fusion. The textured base heightens sensations for the wearer during strap-on play. 

Want more ideas? This Bad Girls Bible Guide has a fantastic detailed breakdown of options when playing with yourself! What’s your favorite position?

 As always, the Wet For Her team wants you to play safe, have fun, and come often!

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