Cake & Cunnilingus : Oral Sex

Cake & Cunnilingus Day may have had a heterocentric start, but queer women rose to the occasion and enthusiastically embraced the holiday as a win-win for their partnerships. While some folks find scheduling oral sex to feel unromantic or contrived, pre-planning intimacy can also have positive impacts on your relationship. Anticipation is foreplay!

All Bodies Welcome

Oral sex looks different for each body across the queer spectrum. We use “femme” in an inclusive way, as a cultural identity more than a physical one. Some women don’t have vaginas, and some vaginas don’t have women. The way we look at it, if you feel like celebrating your femininity with great food and even better head, this holiday is for you!

For trans and other gender-divergent folks

A little intentional conversation can go a long way to ensure an evening ends in earth-shattering orgams instead of dysphoria-inducing awkwardness. Take time to connect with your partner and find out what words make each of you feel sexiest in your bodies, as well as how you like to be touched. 

There are infinite answers and none are wrong if they reflect what turns you on. Some vaginas would rather be celebrated on Steak & Blowjob Day, and that’s cool too. For those folks we recommend exploring your oral fantasies with the Shilo pack-n-play dildo.

Loose Lips Sink Ships - And It’s Going Down!

Our society is still coming to terms with the scope and power of female sexuality; and our lexicon is filled with euphemisms for eating pussy. Whatever you choose to call it, devoting exclusive attention to your lover’s most sensitive flesh is an intimate experience that can be immensely pleasurable for both parties.

There’s really no wrong way to muff dive

But if you’re feeling insecure in your technique, check out these cunnilingus tips expertly drawn by lesbians on spring break. If you’re looking for extra stimulation to take your experience over the top, try adding a low-profile vibe like the Ayu Finger Vibes or the Rainbow Bullet for targeted rumbles that hit justthe right spot.

Penetration paired with a skilled tongue is the perfect combination for a powerful blended orgasm. Try using a dildo to target your lover’s G-Spot during your next adventure down under. For more ideas of toys to bring to bed, check out our post on the best sex toys for oral play!

The Fifth Flavor

Following the more commonly identified flavors of sweet, salty, sour, and bitter there is the fifth savory flavor described in Japanese cuisine as umami. Bacon is umami! Even better, so is vagina. 

The sophisticated palates of chefs and lesbians alike note the similarities between pussy and many of the world’s favorite foods. There’s a reason you love the way your girl tastes. So whether it’s celebrated with sweet desserts or savory main courses, splurge on the things you crave and spend an evening between your partner’s legs.