StartHer™ Kit Harness and Strap-on Dildo

There are two main types of harnesses for strap-on plays. Underwear style harnesses, which look like a pair of underwear and range from a variety of styles like boxer briefs, thongs, and boy shorts. Strap-on style harnesses come with adjustable straps to fit with your body shape. These come in thong and jockstrap styles to fit those with vulvas or penises. Wet for Her carries a plentitude of harness styles, from boxer brief, thong, jockstrap, lingerie, and boy shorts. Check out our harness selection here: https://www.wetforher.com/all-harnesses

Harnesses should not fit loosely. In fact, you want them to be as snug as possible, like your “best pair of jeans that make your butt look good” kind of snug. The more well-adjusted your strap-on harness is to your body, the easier it will be to move and control the attached dildo when you're pegging or penetrating your partner.

Harnesses can fit a variety of dildos, from silicone, glass, stainless steel, and pyrex dildos. We recommend using silicone dildos as they are not as heavy and tend to be flexible enough to control for penetrative sex. For beginners who are new to strap-ons, we recommend a dildo that is five to seven inches long and 1.5 to 1.75 inches in diameter. It is always ideal to start off one size down so you don’t get one that is too big. You can also consider texture, so it’s best to experiment with dildos and see which ones you and your partner prefer! We carry strap-on dildos that vibrate, are curved, suction dildos, G-spot dildos, and even trans* inclusive packers which double as dildos. Check out our strap-on dildos here: https://www.wetforher.com/61-strap-on-dildos

The same way you would care for any of your regular sex toys! Remember to clean them after every use with a foam toy cleanser or by using an antibacterial soap and warm water. To increase its shelf life, we recommend storing it somewhere where it is dry and room temperature, preferably inside of a case or a satin pouch.

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The first step you’ll want to take is adjusting the harness to your body. Make sure to adjust it as snug as you can without it being too tight that it’s cutting off circulation or becoming uncomfortable. Next, you’re going to want to insert the dildo into the O-ring, a hole within the harness’s strap which can fit dildos. Make sure everything is well-adjusted. Afterwards, you and your partner can use lube, with whoever is receiving applying lubricant to themself and whoever is wearing the strap-on applying lubricant to the dildo. Take things slow and be patient and reapply lube whenever necessary. Don’t worry if things start off slow, not everything will remain linear and it is a new form of sexual play, in fact! Remain open-minded and everything should work out great.

Strap-ons dildos provide a fun and engaging way to explore new modalities of sex with your partner, especially if one of you would like to provide penetrative sex to the other. Strap-on sex can help improve pleasure for both parties, increase intimacy, and even provide a cool power trip to the one on the giving end. Most lesbian couples enjoy strap-os didlos as they get to see the way their partner’s react to pleasure. Additionally, it’s a great way to stimulate your G-spot, your P-spot or prostate, or your A-spot and anus.

Yes! And that’s one of the greatest benefits of using strap-on dildos. Some strapons for lesbians already come with vibrating features and provide even more intensity and pleasure for both wearer and receiver. You are also free to pair your vibrator sex toy with your strap-on for extra fun. Wet for Her carries a variety of strap-on dildo that vibrates all the wet fun. Our popular UNION double dildo features an innovative style for both wearer and receiver with amazing vibration: https://www.wetforher.com/union-double-dildo-vibrating-pink.html We also carry a clitoris ring vibrator you can plug on to your strap-on dildo for even more fun! https://www.wetforher.com/wowhertm-clitoris-ring-vibrator-plug-on.html

Strap-ons sex toys are a type of dildo which can be adjusted and fitted to a harness. So in a sense, yes, they are technically the same thing. Some strap-on dildos can be used as regular sex toys if you would prefer to do some solo play or use it on your partner without a harness.

Strap-on sex toys for queer and lesbian couples can be used in a variety of exciting ways. They can be used for vaginal penetration and anal penetration. They can be enjoyed one at a time or simultaneously with your partner. They can be used on their own or with other strap-on sex toy accessories. The bullet vibrator will bring plenty of pleasure to you or your partner. In fact, they are one of the most versatile and innovative types of sex toys on the market. Therefore, you need to think carefully about what kind of strap-on sex you want to enjoy so that you can ensure the toy you choose delivers the results you want. If you want to use your sex toy for anal play, then you will need butt plugs.

Before you start shopping for strap-on sex toys, you first need to establish your budget, as it can be all too easy to get carried away once you see all the amazing toys we have for you to try. Fortunately, if you are on a strict budget, there are still lots of great options available at Wetforher.com. Sex toy bundles for beginners are a good choice as these allow you to get everything you need to enjoy strap on sex without blowing your budget. Or, for those that have a little bit more to spend, we offer sex toys for lesbians from some of the top-rated brands in the world.

Lube and strap on sex toys go hand in hand. You can't have one without the other, especially if you are planning to enjoy anal penetration with your partner. We offer an extensive selection of lubricants that are condom and sex toy compatible. We also stock vegan-friendly lubricants for vegans. If you are planning to use your strap on sex toy for vaginal penetration, then a standard water-based lube is fine. However, if you want to indulge in anal sex, thicker lube is recommended.

If you are new to women's strap-on sex toys, you may be wondering about how exactly they work. These are designed to allow you to experience hands-free vaginal or anal penetration with your partner, and there are many different types of strap on sex toys for you to choose from. A strap-on sex toy is a two-part sex toy for couples that includes a dildo and a strap-on harness. The dildo is attached to the front of the strap on the harness, which is worn by the person who will be performing penetrative sex on their partner. All our women's strap-on sex toys are created with your and your partner's comfort in mind and come in a variety of different sizes, styles, and colors. We also offer double dildos, which are a type of women's strap-on sex toy that does not require a harness. These deliver hands-free, simultaneous penetrative sex that has to be tried to be believed! Strap-on sex is not designed to be serious so try to have fun and don't feel embarrassed if it doesn't go 100% to plan the first time around. Getting the hang of women's strap on sex toys can take time, so just keep practicing with your partner. Plus, don't forget you can always get in touch with our team of sexperts if you need any advice or recommendations!

To fully enjoy queer and lesbian strap on sex toys, you need to ensure you have a high-quality dildo and a compatible harness. A medical grade silicone dildo is the best on the market, offering the magic combination of pleasure, safety, and hygiene. These are available in a wide range of different sizes, with options for vaginal and anal sex. In terms of finding the perfect harness, you need to make sure that you choose one that is compatible with your choice of sex toy and one that you feel comfortable wearing. We have harnesses in a selection of different styles, with each one delivering ease of use and the ultimate in comfort. In fact, our harness underwear is so comfortable that you can wear them all day long if you want to! Interested in trying a double ended dildo? For times when you both want to achieve the big O at the same time, double dildos are the ideal choice. As with all our queer and lesbian sex toys, a little lube makes your next sexual experience even more pleasurable, and luckily for you, we stock some of the top-rated lesbian lubricants on the market. Choose from water-based lubricants, organic lubricants, satin lubricants, vegan-friendly lubes, and so much more.

Yes, there are! If you are new to the wonderful world of strap on sex toys for women, then it can be a good idea to choose one of our sex toy bundles. Enabling you to dip your toes into strap-on sex and save money in the process, we have a range of different sex toys and harness packs for you to choose from. Check out the RodeoH strap-on panty pack, which includes a Wet For Her non-realistic sex toy called Five and is ideal for anyone wanting to experience strap-on sex for the first time. We feel like this is the best starter bundle to try, but if you are looking to expand your collection, then don't miss out on this one! Alternatively, if you don't mind splashing the cash, then our best-selling spareparts strap-on sex kits are the best in the industry and are must-haves for couples looking to up the ante each time they want to have strap on sex with their partner. The harnesses provide the utmost support and comfort, and the accompanying sex toys guarantee to deliver maximum pleasure. Browse all our best-selling sex bundles for beginners and get started on your journey into strap-on sex for less.

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Strap-on harnesses enable you to go hands free and even enable you to do double penetration if you pick double dildos. They either feature a hole or an O-ring so that you can easily slot your chosen sex toy in and ensure it stays securely in place. Again, there are lots of different styles of harness underwear to choose from, such as ones that are designed for comfort and others that demand to be seen – check out the hollow strap options for something different. If you like the thought of being able to wear your harness all day long, then choose discreet harness underwear that will not be visible underneath your clothes. Alternatively, if you want to deliver maximum impact, opt for a sexier and strappy style. You can find a range of harness dildo sex toys available.

If you want harness underwear that offers comfort and ease of use, then the Tomboi brief harness is the perfect choice for you. Available in sizes XXS to 5XL, these harness briefs look exactly like normal underwear but with the addition of the elastic O-ring, which fits all our strap on dildos, including double dildos. They are machine washable and come with a vibrating option. This strap on starter kit also comes with our popular queer and lesbian strap on sex toy Five, which is made from 100% medical grade silicone. If your partner is a beginner to strap on sex or you are, taking it back to basics with this one is ideal.

If you prefer a more sexy and sultry harness, then the Joque Strap On Harness is the one for you. A two-strap harness that can be easily adjusted to fit your or your partner’s body, this strap on starter kit also comes with the pink dildo Five. A great choice for those who are new to strap on sex and have a limited budget, this strap on starter kit is also double dildo compatible and has a vibrating option for those who want clitoral stimulation. Both enjoy the penetration and be closer than ever before! The accompanying strap-on dildo boasts a sleek design and is curved for g-spot stimulation, and it can also be used with or without the Joque strap on harness.

Our most affordable strap on starter kit, this absolute bargain comes with the stylish and comfortable shorty harness and the dildo Five. The shorty harness is made from 95% cotton, which means it feels super soft against the skin and can be worn all day and night, so you can get it on whenever the mood takes you. It is available in sizes small, medium, large, and extra-large, so you can wear it comfortably for as long as you want to. The dildo Five pairs perfectly with the shorty harness and boast a realistic dildo shape that promises to hit all the right spots! It may just become your new favorite.

Whether you are new to strap on sex or you are strap on play expert, we can help you enjoy strap on sex with your partner to the max. If you are still not sure what strap on starter kit or bundle to choose or you want to find out more about interesting harnesses like the strapless strap option, get in touch with our friendly and knowledgeable team of sexperts here and let us help you find the perfect dildo and harness kits to take your sex life to the next level.

The best beginner strapon kit will contain everything you need to enjoy hands-free penetrative sex with your partner. Most strap on starter kits contain a strap on dildo and a compatible harness, as these are the two main items that you need to enjoy hands-free play with your partner. Even if you are an experienced user of sex toys, it is better to get a beginner strapon kit to start. There are many different strap on kits on the market, with options to suit women of all sizes and desires. If you are new to strap on sex, then it is a good idea to start with a smaller silicone dildo size, especially if you want to experiment with anal play. The type of harness that you choose is completely down to personal preference and will be dependent on whether you favor comfort or style. You can also find starter strap on kits that contain other sex toy accessories, such as bullet vibrators, which can be used to give clitoral stimulation, and lubricant, which is a must for anal penetration. If you are not sure what sized dildo you want to use, you might want to purchase a strapon kit that comes with multiple strap on dildos, including the double dildo. This will allow you can experiment and find out which size works best for you and your partner.

There are a number of top-rated strapon kits on the market, and here at Wetforher.com, we have all the best beginner strapon kits and bundles for you to choose from. If you want the best strapon dildo kit that includes a harness and strap on dildo, then we recommend the RodeoH Brief Harness and Strap On Kit. RodeoH is an American-based company that specializes in making harnesses for lesbians and offers affordable harness panties that are both sexy and comfortable to wear. Alternatively, if you are willing to invest a little more in a strapon kit, then you can’t beat SpareParts strap on harnesses that offer superior support, allows for maximum thrust, and is incredibly durable. This will leave you with no worries when you start to get down to business with your partner. Of course, finding the best strap on kit is predominantly down to personal preference and can be a case of trial and error to see what works for you as a couple. If you order a strap on kit from Wetforher.com and you are not happy with the fit of the harness, we will be more than happy to exchange this for you and help you find the right size harness. There are plenty of options to choose from, and sometimes it will take trying a few to figure out what you get on best with. Other times, you will just know. You may even like to have several options to shake up the experience each time!

If you are not sure what harness size to buy, then we are more than happy to help you with this. All the strap on harnesses available on our website come with a size guide so that you can see exactly what size you or your partner need. If you are opting for an underwear-style harness, then this is very straightforward as you simply pick the correct size based on your or your partner’s measurements. It is worth noting that you want the harness to fit snugly but not too tight that it feels uncomfortable, as this will make your strap on sex experience less satisfying. On the other hand, if you prefer a strap on harness that features straps, these can be adjusted to achieve the perfect fit, and they come in a wide variety of sizes from XXS to 5XL. Still struggling with our harness sizes? Why not get in touch with us directly and let us help you find the right size strap on harness for you and your partner? We are experts in queer and lesbian sex toys and accessories, and if there is something you need to know about harnesses and choosing the right harness size, we are guaranteed to know it.

When it comes to finding the perfect strapon starter kit, you first need to think about what it is that you and your partner want from strap on sex. Consider: • Do you want to just try vaginal penetration, or are you also interested in exploring anal play? • Do you want to enjoy the feeling of ejaculation? • Do you want to take turns being the wearer and the receiver? • What type of strap on dildo do you want to use? • Do you want to be able to use different sizes of dildos? All of the above questions will help you to identify what type of strap on starter kit is right for your sex life. Take some time to think over the answers. For instance, if you answered yes to liking feeling ejaculation inside you, you should opt for a hollow strap product. If you don’t know what you like, you may be better off keeping it simple and starting with the basics. Here at Wetforher.com, we have several top-rated strap on starter kits for you to choose from – explore each one below!

There is no reason why you can’t add some sexy extras to your selected strap on starter kit to make your strap on sex experience even more mind-blowing. If you are going to double up on strap on kit must-haves, it has to be these extras! If you love clitoral stimulation – and who doesn’t? – why not treat yourself to the Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator that boasts 5 speeds? This small but powerful vibrator can be used with your chosen strapon harness or on its own. Plus, it boasts a remote control feature so you can tantalize and tease your partner until they beg you to stop! If you are struggling with strap on sex, then the Spareparts O-Ring Dildo Stabilizer is just what you need. A must-have accessory for your strap on starter kit, this easy-to-use stabilizer is designed to create a larger base for small, realistic dildos and support for heavier bases. Finally, lube, lube, and lots of lube! Whatever type of strap on sex starter kit you choose, a good quality lubricant is a must, especially if you are planning on indulging in anal sex. We have a wide range of top-rated lubes for you to choose from, including silicone-based lubricants, water-based lubricants, and vegan-friendly lubricants, so start stocking up now!

If you have been questioning what is a strap on harness and why would I need one?, we have all the answers. A strap on harness is for when you want to enjoy strapon sex with your partner. There are several styles of harnesses that you can choose from, including: • Jockstrap: A jockstrap harness, as the name suggests, features a classic jockstrap design with straps that go around the waist and over each buttock. • Thong: A thong harness looks just like a thong and boasts a strap around the waist and one that goes between the legs and the buttocks. • Underwear: Finally, you have the underwear-style harness, which delivers the highest level of comfort out of all three harness styles. This type of harness looks just like a pair of briefs or boxers and can be worn all day or just during sex. Harnesses are an essential element of strapon sex as they allow you to penetrate, or be penetrated, without having to use your hands. They also enable you to experiment with different sexual positions as well as enjoy both vaginal and anal play. Here at Wetforher, we offer strapon harnesses that are specially designed for queer and lesbian couples, with options to suit all individual preferences and budgets.

If you are looking for the best strapon harness so that you and your partner can enjoy mind-blowing hands-free penetration, then look no further. While there is no one-size-fits-all approach to strap on sex toys, as everyone has different needs and desires, we offer strapon harnesses from some of the most trusted sex toy brands aimed at the LGBTQ community. The Tomboi Brief Harness is ideal for those that favor comfort above all else and want to be able to wear their harness underwear all day long. Available in a wide variety of sizes, including plus sizes, this is one of our best-selling strapon harnesses for lesbians. Alternatively, the Joque Strap On Harness boasts a more strappy and sexy design that is perfect for lesbians that want to proudly parade their harness in front of their partner. Whatever your sexual desires, you can find the perfect strapon harness when you browse our selection of harnesses made by lesbians for lesbians.

If you have searched for strapon harnesses online and you are concerned that they all look a little uncomfortable, you will be pleased to hear that we offer some of the most wearable strapons harnesses on the market. While traditional strapon harnesses tend to feature straps that go around your waist and underneath your legs and butt cheeks, you can now find a comfortable strapon harness that features no straps at all. Strapon brief and strapon boxer harnesses are specially designed to offer maximum comfort and fit snugly over your body in exactly the same way that your underwear does. These types of strapon harnesses are so comfortable that they can be worn all day, discreetly underneath your clothing, with no noticeable bulges. If you are worried about purchasing a strapon harness online only to find that it does not fit comfortably on you or your partner or doesn’t help you reach that dildo g spot, we offer returns on all our strapon harnesses so that you can enjoy peace of mind when you shop with us. Find an adjustable harness option today.

Some strapon harnesses can be used with a different dildo size and style, like a silicone dildo, for instance, while others can only be used with specific designs. Therefore, it is important that you pick a harness that is compatible with the dildo you intend to use. More specifically, you need to make sure that the base or ring on the harness is a size that will hold the dildo in place. You want to enjoy having sex, not worry about whether the dildo is in the right place or not. If you are planning to buy a strapon harness and dildo from a sex store, then you can easily try the two together to see if they are compatible. Remember that the dildo needs to fit snugly in the ring or base; otherwise, you will find strapon sex hard. If the dildo is too loose, then you need to find a harness with a smaller ring. Always ask experts, “is the harness compatible with your chosen dildo?” before purchasing. All our strapon dildos are compatible with our strapon harnesses so that you can experiment with as many different shapes, sizes, and styles of strapon dildos as you want! Whether you prefer a boxer or brief style harnesses, strapless strap on harnesses, hollow strap dildo harnesses, or one that features straps, you can choose whatever strapon dildo, whether that is from the dildo vibrator collection we have or double dildos, that you and your partner want to enjoy together. There is a selection of strap harnesses available and non-strap ones too!

Strapon harnesses are easy to care for as most are machine washable. You should wash your strapon harness after every use to avoid any dirt or bacteria from coming into contact with your vagina and possibly causing an infection. It can be helpful to have more than one harness to allow for washing and drying time! Who says you can’t have multiple dildos and harnesses? If you are using a leather strapon harness, then this needs a little more TLC as you cannot simply pop this in your washing machine. Instead, clean your strapon harness with a bar of saddle soap and a soft-bristled brush. You also need to be wary of cracking or your harness becoming too stiff to use comfortably. Our selection of strapon harnesses for queer and lesbian couples are all easy to care for and can be machine-washed so that you can enjoy maximum sexual pleasure with minimal cleanup afterward. Always make sure that you read the care instructions on your chosen strapon harness and strapon dildo before washing to ensure that your sex toys stay in optimal condition for longer.

When it comes to sex, hygiene is an important factor for most couples. Fortunately, most strapon harnesses offer high levels of hygiene and safety. If you choose to wear an underwear-style strap on harness, these are typically made from cotton or nylon, which means they are machine washable. However, it can be a good idea to first place them in a lingerie bag so that they don’t become tangled with other items of clothing. You should never place your strapon harness in the dryer as this can damage the fabric and prevent the harness from being able to securely hold the dildo in place. Air dry it instead to extend its life. All our harnesses are machine washable so that you don’t have to worry about choosing the most hygienic strapon harness for you and your partner to enjoy – they are all hygienic so long as you properly wash and dry them.

If you favor comfort above all else, then a boxer or brief-style strapon harness is the obvious choice. These are designed in the style of normal underwear and are so comfortable that they can be worn all day without any chaffing or visible bumps. However, it is worth noting that these do not always give you as much control as other styles of harnesses. So if you want to be certain that you hold control, opting for another type could be beneficial. If you want to be in the moment and more spontaneous about sex, then these are perfect as you can wear them all day like normal underwear, and then if you both feel like it, you can get down to business when it is just the two of you. If you don’t feel like this is the right one for you, then one of our most popular underwear-style harness brands is Tomboi which designs boxer and brief strapon harnesses in breathable fabrics that are both lightweight and comfortable to wear. Plus, these are double dildo compatible and suitable for packing – meaning your next weekend away just got more exciting. If you have been considering investing in a double dildo, now is the perfect time to buy one of these harnesses. Strapon harnesses that feature straps that go around your waist and underneath your legs and butt cheeks are a good option for women that prefer a more “look at me” strapon sex experience. These also offer more control when it comes to thrusting, which is important for some queer and lesbian couples. Joque Strap On Harnesses are a popular choice for queer and lesbian couples who want a harness that features straps but still want a simple setup that does not require much adjustment. If you need any more help in choosing the perfect strapon harness to enhance your sex life, our team of sexperts are on hand to offer you support and advice. Remember, all our sex toys and accessories are made by lesbians for lesbians, so you know you are in safe hands when you select us as your sex toy supplier of choice!