STRAP-ONS & HARNESSES

BY WET FOR HER

For lesbians who prefer penetration, strap-on harnesses take dildos to a whole new level. We have designed unique and amazing strap-ons for LGBTQ+ couples. They come in a variety of shapes and sizes, both in terms of the dildo and harness options available, and be sure to check our best-reviewed strap-ons. All our strap-on harnesses fit easily and efficiently with the harnesses we carry due to an elastic o-ring, which works with dildos that are Small to X-large in diameter.

Add an o-ring stabilizer if you need a little extra control, or slip a bullet vibrator into one of the harness pockets for sexy stimulation. Harnesses come in traditional two-strap styles (such as the Jock or Theo), as well as boxer or pantie or lingerie styles. Save with one of our bestselling strap-on dildo and harness kits that provide the perfect pairing for your pleasure.

Attachment issues? Oh, not that kind of attachment. We’re talking about the literal stuff: strap-ons and harnesses that fit together. If you’re looking for a way to wear your dildo with confidence, explore our range of strap-ons and harnesses. 

In a variety of shapes, sizes and styles, our strap-on dildos and harnesses are the perfect fit for all LGBTQ+ couples and play partners — the customer ratings speak for themselves. Thanks to an elastic O-ring, our harnesses work with a range of dildo sizes, plus they’re available in strap versions or as easy-to-slip-into boxers, briefs or panties. Power and pleasure are just a few clicks away.

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  1. RAINBOW STRAP-ON DILDO FOR LESBIANS COUPLE WOMEN SILICONE HARNESS Bestseller
    Rainbow Strap-on Dildo - Suction cup base
    $40.45 -10%
    $44.95 You save  $4.5
     
     
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  2. Boxer Black Harness XS to 5X for strap-on sex toys. Bestseller
    Boxer Black Underwear Strap-on Harness O'Ring & Packer - XS-5X
    $44.95 -10%
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  3. STRAPON FOR LESBIAN SEX TOYS DILDO VIBRATOR COUPLE BOXER HARNESS VIBRATING BONDAGE FURNITURE PLUGS LUBRICANTS HOLLOW Bestseller
    Pack Boxer Harness Black XS-5XL + Strap-On Dildo Five
    $83.92 -20%
    $104.90 You save  $20.98
     
     
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  4. STRAP-ON DILOD VIBRATING RECHARGEABLE 10 SPEEDS HARNESS WOMEN Bestseller
    Fusion Vibe 2.0 - Grinding Base™ Vibrating Rechargeable Strap-on 6 Inch
    $71.20 -5%
    $74.95 You save  $3.75
     
     
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  5. STRAP-ON DILDO VIBRATING RECHARGEABLE PLEASURE BASE 10 SPEEDS REMOTE CONTROL HARNESS PLAY WOMEN PLEASURE Bestseller
    Fusion Vibe 2.0 - Grinding Base™ Vibrating Rechargeable Strap-on 6 Inch
    $71.20 -5%
    $74.95 You save  $3.75
     
     
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  6. STRAP ON VIBRATING DILDO REMOTE CONTROL BUNDLE HARNESS PLAY PLEASURE BASE Bestseller
    Bundle Fusion Vibe 2.0 + Remote Control - Vibrating Strap-on Dildo
    $77.09 -9%
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    HighHer - Cannabis Glow in the Dark Strap-on Dildo 6 inch
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  8. Pack Jock Harness XS-5X + Fusion 2.0 Vibrating Strap-On Dildo
    Pack Jock Harness XS-5X + Fusion 2.0 Vibrating Strap-On Dildo
    $149.66 -17%
    $179.35 You save  $29.69
     
     
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  9. Rechargeable Black Bullet 2.0 Vibrator 10 Speeds - Compatible Remote Control -  2.25 " Bestseller
    Rechargeable Black Bullet 2.0 Vibrator 10 Speeds - Compatible Remote Control - 2.25 "
    $35.95
     
     
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  10. Best strap-ons for lesbians. Build Your Strap-on Kit : 1 Harness + 1  Strap-on 35% Off Bestseller
    Build Your Pack - Up to 35% Off : 1 Harness + 1 Strap-On + Accessories (optional)

    Starting at $40.43 Regular Price $49.95

     
     
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  11. STRAPON FOR LESBIAN SEX TOYS ADJUSTABLE PRICE JOCK HARNESS O RING BONDAGE PLUG COUPLE DILDO PRICE VIBRATORS STRAP-ONS DILDOS HOLLOW Bestseller
    Pack Jock Harness Black XS-5X + Strap-on Dildo Five
    $119.95 -20%
    $149.40 You save  $29.45
     
     
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  12. REMOTE CONTROL VIBRATOR Bestseller
    ClickHer - Remote Control for Fusion Vibe 2.0 and Union Vibe 2.0
    $9.95
     
     
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  13. DOUBLE DILDO VIBRATING REMOTE CONTROL DOUBLE HEADED FOR LESBIANS HARNESS Bestseller
    Bundle Union Vibe 2.0 Double Dildo + Remote Control - Vibrating and rechargeable
    $103.92 -20%
    $129.90 You save  $25.98
     
     
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  14. STRAP-ONS FRO LESBIANS SEX TOYS DILDO HARNESS PLEASURE BASE CLITORIS WOMEN PENETRATION Bestseller
    Purple Kiss Strap-On Dildo - Grinding Base™ - 6 Inch
    $59.35 -10%
    $65.95 You save  $6.6
     
     
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  15. SEX ON THE BEACH STRAP-ON DILDO WOMEN  PLEASURE HARNESS SEX TOYS DUAL PLEASURE CLITORIS Bestseller
    Sex On The Beach Strap-On Dildo - Fusion Grinding Base™ - 6 Inch
    $59.35 -10%
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  16. Strap-on Dildo Five Flat Base - Purple 5.1 Inch Bestseller
    Strap-on Dildo Five Flat Base - Purple 5.1 Inch
    $49.45 -10%
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  17. BRIEF HARNESS BLACK VIBRATOR RODEOH COUPLE STRAP-ON DILDO SEX TOY KIT FURNITURE MATERIAL LUBRICANT LEATHER HOLLOW BEADS Bestseller
    Pack Brief Harness Black XS-5XL + Strap-On Dildo Five
    $83.92 -20%
    $104.90 You save  $20.98
     
     
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  18. Jock Strap-on Harness Adjustable Plus size Bestseller
    Jock Style Adjustable Strap On Harness Black- XS-5X
    $85.00 -10%
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  19. STRAP-ON FOR LESBIANS STRAPON HARNESS BEST LESBIAN SEX TOYS WOMEN COUPLE Bestseller
    Starlight Gold Glitter Strap-on Dildo - 6 Inch
    $35.95 -20%
    $44.95 You save  $9
     
     
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  20. STRAP-ON DILDO STARLETTE PINK AND PURPLE 7INCH HARNESS PLAY WOMEN COUPLE LESBIANS Bestseller
    Starlette - Glow in the Dark Strap-on Dildo - 6 Inch
    $38.20 -15%
    $44.95 You save  $6.75
     
     
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  21. STRAP-ON FOR LESBIANS STRAPON HARNESS BEST LESBIAN SEX TOYS WOMEN COUPLE Bestseller
    Sunset Strap-on Dildo Purple - 7 Inch Medium
    $40.45 -10%
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  22. STRAP-ON FOR LESBIANS STRAPON HARNESS BEST LESBIAN SEX TOYS WOMEN COUPLE Bestseller
    Sunset Strap-on Dildo Pink - 6 Inch - Small
    $40.45 -10%
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  23. LESBIAN SEX TOY PLEASURE BASE DUAL PLEASURE HARNESS WOMEN PENETRATION GRINDING DILDO STRAP-ON Bestseller
    Lesbian Delight Strap-On Dildo - Fusion Grinding Base™™ - 6 Inch
    $59.35 -10%
    $65.95 You save  $6.6
     
     
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  24. STRAP ON DILDO LESBIAN SEX TOYS COUPLE FIVE NO PENIS SHAPE KIT HARNESSES VIBRATOR VIBRATING WET FOR HER TOYS Bestseller
    Strap-on Dildo Five Flat Base - Black 5.1 Inch
    $49.45 -10%
    $54.95 You save  $5.5
     
     
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FAQ

What type of strap-on harnesses are there for women couples?

There are two main types of harnesses for strap-on plays. Underwear style harnesses, which look like a pair of underwear and range from a variety of styles like boxer briefs, thongs, and boy shorts. Strap-on style harnesses come with adjustable straps to fit with your body shape. These come in thong and jockstrap styles to fit those with vulvas or penises. Wet for Her carries a plentitude of harness styles, from boxer brief, thong, jockstrap, lingerie, and boy shorts. Check out our harness selection here: https://www.wetforher.com/all-harnesses

How is a strap-on harness supposed to fit?

Harnesses should not fit loosely. In fact, you want them to be as snug as possible, like your “best pair of jeans that make your butt look good” kind of snug. The more well-adjusted your strap-on harness is to your body, the easier it will be to move and control the attached dildo when you're pegging or penetrating your partner.

What types and sizes of strap-on fits in a harness?

Harnesses can fit a variety of dildos, from silicone, glass, stainless steel, and pyrex dildos. We recommend using silicone dildos as they are not as heavy and tend to be flexible enough to control for penetrative sex. For beginners who are new to strap-ons, we recommend a dildo that is five to seven inches long and 1.5 to 1.75 inches in diameter. It is always ideal to start off one size down so you don’t get one that is too big. You can also consider texture, so it’s best to experiment with dildos and see which ones you and your partner prefer! We carry strap-on dildos that vibrate, are curved, suction dildos, G-spot dildos, and even trans* inclusive packers which double as dildos. Check out our strap-on dildos here: https://www.wetforher.com/61-strap-on-dildos

Are there any drawbacks to using a strap-on sex toy?

No drawbacks! Only more fun ways to explore and have sex!

How do I use a strap-on dildo? What are the general steps I should follow?

The first step you’ll want to take is adjusting the harness to your body. Make sure to adjust it as snug as you can without it being too tight that it’s cutting off circulation or becoming uncomfortable. Next, you’re going to want to insert the dildo into the O-ring, a hole within the harness’s strap which can fit dildos. Make sure everything is well-adjusted. Afterwards, you and your partner can use lube, with whoever is receiving applying lubricant to themself and whoever is wearing the strap-on applying lubricant to the dildo. Take things slow and be patient and reapply lube whenever necessary. Don’t worry if things start off slow, not everything will remain linear and it is a new form of sexual play, in fact! Remain open-minded and everything should work out great.

What are the benefits of a strap-on harness?

Strap-ons provide a fun and engaging way to explore new modalities of sex with your partner, especially if one of you would like to provide penetrative sex to the other. Strap-ons sex can help improve pleasure for both parties, increase intimacy, and even provide a cool power trip to the one on the giving end. Most lesbian couples enjoy strap-os dildos as they get to see the way their partners react to pleasure. Additionally, it’s a great way to stimulate your G-spot, your P-spot or prostate, or your A-spot and anus.

Can a strap-on be combined with a vibrator?

Yes! And that’s one of the greatest benefits of using a strap-on. Some strap-ons for lesbians already come with vibrating features and provide even more intensity and pleasure for both the wearer and the receiver. You are also free to pair your vibrator sex toy with your strap-on for extra fun. Wet for Her carries a variety of strap-on dildo that vibrates all the wet fun. Our popular Fusion strapon features an innovative style for both the wearer and the receiver. We also carry a clitoris ring vibrator you can plug onto your strap-on for even more fun! https://www.wetforher.com/wowhertm-clitoris-ring-vibrator-plug-on.html

Is a strap-on the same thing as a dildo?

Strap-ons sex toys are a type of dildo which can be adjusted and fitted to a harness. So in a sense, yes, they are technically the same thing. Some strap-on dildos can be used as regular sex toys if you would prefer to do some solo play or use it on your partner without a harness.
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Strap-ons Harnesses

Strap-ons and harnesses designed by women for women to be sexy, and pretty while using strap-on sex toys. No more massive, leather and uncomfortable straps that kill the mood, bought from a webshop that doesn’t represent your lifestyle. All our strap-ons fit our sex toys and dildos easily and efficiently due to an elastic o'ring. The elastic o'ring will work perfectly with any dildo and sex toys from small to Xlarge diameter. Check our bestsellers strap-on kits and save.

Let the receiver pick the dildo! When it comes to strap-on harness and dildo play it can be a good idea for the receiver to pick the dildo they like as they are the one being penetrated. Often, the strap-on harness and dildo wearer might have a look and sexual mood in mind but that might not always match what the receiver is feeling! The receiver might have a dildo shape in mind that’s getting her way more horny so rather than arm yourself with a dildo in your strap-on harness and getting into playtime right away, perhaps tease the receiver with a selection of dildos first and let her pick the one that’s making her hot. There’s a first time for everything so don’t be too serious when using your strap-on harness and dildo the first time! Sex after all is supposed to be fun right, so keep it light and fun when using a strap-on harness and dildo the first time with your partner. Maybe both of you are doing it for the first time or one of you has and the other hasn't, meaning that one of you might be less confident than the other. Light humor and playfulness is the answer. Go into your dildo play with a strap-on harness in a fun and relaxed way and remember there is no right or wrong way, what’s right is what feels right for you and your partner, rules are meant to be broken so go ahead and have some fun without getting stressed as that is sure to kill the buzz! Whether you rock a boyish or a lipstick lingerie style and/or enjoy bondage, anal, and fetish pleasure, we have boxer gear strap-on style, sexy lingerie panty dildo harnesses and even fine lingerie with or without a tantalizing garter belt. The materials used in our strap-ons are comfortable and the details and finishes are carefully applied for a quality garment such as the o'ring. All our strap-on harnesses our washable unlike leather strap-ons.

What’s more, some of our brief strap-on harnesses can even be comfortably worn like “normal” underwear gear all day long. This means that you’re always ready to please your partner. Surprise your lover at any moment and delight in the excitement that unfolds and order now the new generation of strap-ons.

As experts in LGBTQIA+ sex toys, our selection of strap-on harness kits includes strapless strap-ons, vibrating strap-ons, and double strap-ons, each with an adjustable harness, perfect for any queer or lesbian couple.