HARNESSES

BY WET FOR HER

Harnesses made by women. Find the best harnesses for women, lesbians, and queer couples who enjoy strap-on play to enjoy hands-free love pleasure.

Boxer brief harnesses or the Jock harness are available from XS to 5X in Black and Red. All our didlos fit easily and securely in our harness. 

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  1. Boxer Black Harness XS to 5X for strap-on sex toys. Bestseller
    Boxer Black Underwear Strap-on Harness O'Ring & Packer - XS-5X
    $44.95 -10%
    $49.95 You save  $5
     
     
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  2. Best strap-ons for lesbians. Build Your Strap-on Kit : 1 Harness + 1  Strap-on 35% Off Bestseller
    Build Your Pack - Up to 35% Off : 1 Harness + 1 Strap-On + Accessories (optional)

    Starting at $72.77 Regular Price $124.90

     
     
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  3. Jock Strap-on Harness Adjustable Plus size Bestseller
    Jock Style Adjustable Strap On Harness Black- XS-5X
    $85.00 -10%
    $94.45 You save  $9.45
     
     
    {"item_id":"WFHJOCK","item_name":"Jock Style Adjustable Strap On Harness Black- XS-5X","item_brand":"Wet For Her","discount":9.45,"price":85,"affiliation":"USA","quantity":1}
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  4. Boxer Brief Grey O'Ring Strap-On Harness XS-5X Bestseller
    Boxer Grey Underwear Strap-on Harness O'Ring & Packer - XS-5X
    $44.95 -10%
    $49.95 You save  $5
     
     
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  5. Pack Jock Harness XS-5X + Fusion 2.0 Vibrating Strap-On Dildo
    Pack Jock Harness XS-5X + Fusion 2.0 Vibrating Strap-On Dildo
    $152.83 -15%
    $179.35 You save  $26.52
     
     
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  6. BRIEF HARNESS BEST QUALITY BLACK COUPLE STRAP-ON DILDO SEX TOY VIBRATING O RING VIBRATORS RINGS Bestseller
    Brief Underwear Strap-On Harness and Packer - Black - XS-5X
    $44.95 -10%
    $49.95 You save  $5
     
     
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  7. STRAPON FOR LESBIAN SEX TOYS DILDO VIBRATOR COUPLE BOXER HARNESS VIBRATING BONDAGE FURNITURE PLUGS LUBRICANTS HOLLOW Bestseller
    Pack Boxer Harness Black XS-5XL + Strap-On Dildo Five
    $83.92 -20%
    $104.90 You save  $20.98
     
     
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  8. STRAPON FOR LESBIAN SEX TOYS ADJUSTABLE PRICE JOCK HARNESS O RING BONDAGE PLUG COUPLE DILDO PRICE VIBRATORS STRAP-ONS DILDOS HOLLOW Bestseller
    Pack Jock Harness Black XS-5X + Strap-on Dildo Five
    $119.95 -20%
    $149.40 You save  $29.45
     
     
    {"item_id":"PPJOCK5","item_name":"Pack Jock Harness Black XS-5X + Strap-on Dildo Five","item_brand":"Wet For Her","price":49.45,"affiliation":"USA","quantity":1}
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  9. HARNESS ADJUSTABLE O'RING BLACK PLUS SIZE DILDO STRAP-ON LESBIAN SEX TOYS
    StartHer™ Adjustable Harness with O'ring XS-5X
    $25.95
     
     
    {"item_id":"STARTHER","item_name":"StartHer\u2122 Adjustable Harness with O\u0027ring XS-5X","item_brand":"KM Global","price":25.95,"affiliation":"USA","quantity":1}
  10. STRAP-ON FOR LESBIAN HARNESS ADJUSTABLE O'RING BLACK PLUS SIZE DILDO STRAP-ON LESBIAN SEX TOYS
    StartHer™ Kit Harness and Strap-on Dildo
    $44.96 -15%
    $52.90 You save  $7.94
     
     
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  11. BRIEF HARNESS BLACK VIBRATOR RODEOH COUPLE STRAP-ON DILDO SEX TOY KIT FURNITURE MATERIAL LUBRICANT LEATHER HOLLOW BEADS Bestseller
    Pack Brief Harness Black XS-5XL + Strap-On Dildo Five
    $83.92 -20%
    $104.90 You save  $20.98
     
     
    {"item_id":"PACKBRIEFGEAR","item_name":"Pack Brief Harness Black XS-5XL + Strap-On Dildo Five","item_brand":"Wet For Her","price":44.95,"affiliation":"USA","quantity":1}
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  12. LESBIAN GIFT CARD HARNESS DILDO STRAPON SEX TOY STRAP ON COUPLE SEX Bestseller
    e-Gift Card - Buy Now and Order later together
    From $10.00
     
     
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  13. STRAPON FOR LESBIANS HARNESS JOCK LESBIAN SEX TOYS DILDO COMBO COUPLE SEX PENETRATION O'RING WOMEN BLACK ADJUSTABLE Bestseller
    Pack Jock Black Harness XS-5X + Fusion Strap-On Dildo
    $126.17 -20%
    $157.40 You save  $31.23
     
     
    {"item_id":"PPJOCKFUS","item_name":"Pack Jock Black Harness XS-5X + Fusion Strap-On Dildo","item_brand":"Wet For Her","price":56.65,"affiliation":"USA","quantity":1}
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  14. TOMBOI O RING HARNESS SPAREPARTS STRAPON FOR LESBIAN SEX TOYS DILDO ANAL PLAY COUPLE KIT VIBRATORS RINGS REMOTE HEALTH
    Tomboi - Brief Harness by Spareparts
    $89.95
     
     
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  15. SASHA LINGERIE HARNESS VIBRATOR O RING STRAP-ON PLAY COUPLE MEN ANAL KIT DILDO SEX TOY
    Sasha O'Ring Lingerie Strap On Harness - Red or Black - XS-3X
    $159.95
     
     
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  16. STRAPON DILDO STABILIZER HARNESS SPAREPARTS DILDO  SPAREPARTS LESBIAN PLEASURE PENETRATION
    O-Ring Strap-on Dildo Stabilizer SpareParts
    $13.95
     
     
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  17. RECHARGEABLE BULLET VIBRATOR 5 SPEEDS 2.25 INCH Bestseller
    Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator 5 Speeds 2.25 Inch
     
     
    {"item_id":"WFHBULLET","item_name":"Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator 5 Speeds 2.25 Inch","item_brand":"Wet For Her","price":34.95,"affiliation":"USA","quantity":1}
  18. STP STRAP PACK PACKER HARNESS FTM TRANSGENDER DILDO
    STP and Packer Holder Strap Holster Harness
     
     
    {"item_id":"STRAP-STP","item_name":"STP and Packer Holder Strap Holster Harness","item_brand":"New York Toy Collective","price":29,"affiliation":"USA","quantity":1}

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FAQ

What’s a strapon harness and why do I need one?

If you have been questioning what is a strap on harness and why would I need one?, we have all the answers. A strap on harness is for when you want to enjoy strapon sex with your partner. There are several styles of harnesses that you can choose from, including: • Jockstrap: A jockstrap harness, as the name suggests, features a classic jockstrap design with straps that go around the waist and over each buttock. • Thong: A thong harness looks just like a thong and boasts a strap around the waist and one that goes between the legs and the buttocks. • Underwear: Finally, you have the underwear-style harness, which delivers the highest level of comfort out of all three harness styles. This type of harness looks just like a pair of briefs or boxers and can be worn all day or just during sex. Harnesses are an essential element of strapon sex as they allow you to penetrate, or be penetrated, without having to use your hands. They also enable you to experiment with different sexual positions as well as enjoy both vaginal and anal play. Here at Wetforher, we offer strapon harnesses that are specially designed for queer and lesbian couples, with options to suit all individual preferences and budgets.

What’s the best strapon harness?

If you are looking for the best strapon harness so that you and your partner can enjoy mind-blowing hands-free penetration, then look no further. While there is no one-size-fits-all approach to strap on sex toys, as everyone has different needs and desires, we offer strapon harnesses from some of the most trusted sex toy brands aimed at the LGBTQ community. The Tomboi Brief Harness is ideal for those that favor comfort above all else and want to be able to wear their harness underwear all day long. Available in a wide variety of sizes, including plus sizes, this is one of our best-selling strapon harnesses for lesbians. Alternatively, the Joque Strap On Harness boasts a more strappy and sexy design that is perfect for lesbians that want to proudly parade their harness in front of their partner. Whatever your sexual desires, you can find the perfect strapon harness when you browse our selection of harnesses made by lesbians for lesbians.

How can I find a comfortable strapon harness for me?

If you have searched for strapon harnesses online and you are concerned that they all look a little uncomfortable, you will be pleased to hear that we offer some of the most wearable strapons harnesses on the market. While traditional strapon harnesses tend to feature straps that go around your waist and underneath your legs and butt cheeks, you can now find a comfortable strapon harness that features no straps at all. Strapon brief and strapon boxer harnesses are specially designed to offer maximum comfort and fit snugly over your body in exactly the same way that your underwear does. These types of strapon harnesses are so comfortable that they can be worn all day, discreetly underneath your clothing, with no noticeable bulges. If you are worried about purchasing a strapon harness online only to find that it does not fit comfortably on you or your partner or doesn’t help you reach that dildo g spot, we offer returns on all our strapon harnesses so that you can enjoy peace of mind when you shop with us. Find an adjustable harness option today.

Do all strapon dildos fit all harnesses?

Some strapon harnesses can be used with a different dildo size and style, like a silicone dildo, for instance, while others can only be used with specific designs. Therefore, it is important that you pick a harness that is compatible with the dildo you intend to use. More specifically, you need to make sure that the base or ring on the harness is a size that will hold the dildo in place. You want to enjoy having sex, not worry about whether the dildo is in the right place or not. If you are planning to buy a strapon harness and dildo from a sex store, then you can easily try the two together to see if they are compatible. Remember that the dildo needs to fit snugly in the ring or base; otherwise, you will find strapon sex hard. If the dildo is too loose, then you need to find a harness with a smaller ring. Always ask experts, “is the harness compatible with your chosen dildo?” before purchasing. All our strapon dildos are compatible with our strapon harnesses so that you can experiment with as many different shapes, sizes, and styles of strapon dildos as you want! Whether you prefer a boxer or brief style harnesses, strapless strap on harnesses, hollow strap dildo harnesses, or one that features straps, you can choose whatever strapon dildo, whether that is from the dildo vibrator collection we have or double dildos, that you and your partner want to enjoy together. There is a selection of strap harnesses available and non-strap ones too!

How do I care for my strapon harness?

Strapon harnesses are easy to care for as most are machine washable. You should wash your strapon harness after every use to avoid any dirt or bacteria from coming into contact with your vagina and possibly causing an infection. It can be helpful to have more than one harness to allow for washing and drying time! Who says you can’t have multiple dildos and harnesses? If you are using a leather strapon harness, then this needs a little more TLC as you cannot simply pop this in your washing machine. Instead, clean your strapon harness with a bar of saddle soap and a soft-bristled brush. You also need to be wary of cracking or your harness becoming too stiff to use comfortably. Our selection of strapon harnesses for queer and lesbian couples are all easy to care for and can be machine-washed so that you can enjoy maximum sexual pleasure with minimal cleanup afterward. Always make sure that you read the care instructions on your chosen strapon harness and strapon dildo before washing to ensure that your sex toys stay in optimal condition for longer.

What’s the most hygienic strapon harness?

When it comes to sex, hygiene is an important factor for most couples. Fortunately, most strapon harnesses offer high levels of hygiene and safety. If you choose to wear an underwear-style strap on harness, these are typically made from cotton or nylon, which means they are machine washable. However, it can be a good idea to first place them in a lingerie bag so that they don’t become tangled with other items of clothing. You should never place your strapon harness in the dryer as this can damage the fabric and prevent the harness from being able to securely hold the dildo in place. Air dry it instead to extend its life. All our harnesses are machine washable so that you don’t have to worry about choosing the most hygienic strapon harness for you and your partner to enjoy – they are all hygienic so long as you properly wash and dry them.

Which harness is right for me?

If you favor comfort above all else, then a boxer or brief-style strapon harness is the obvious choice. These are designed in the style of normal underwear and are so comfortable that they can be worn all day without any chaffing or visible bumps. However, it is worth noting that these do not always give you as much control as other styles of harnesses. So if you want to be certain that you hold control, opting for another type could be beneficial. If you want to be in the moment and more spontaneous about sex, then these are perfect as you can wear them all day like normal underwear, and then if you both feel like it, you can get down to business when it is just the two of you. If you don’t feel like this is the right one for you, then one of our most popular underwear-style harness brands is Tomboi which designs boxer and brief strapon harnesses in breathable fabrics that are both lightweight and comfortable to wear. Plus, these are double dildo compatible and suitable for packing – meaning your next weekend away just got more exciting. If you have been considering investing in a double dildo, now is the perfect time to buy one of these harnesses. Strapon harnesses that feature straps that go around your waist and underneath your legs and butt cheeks are a good option for women that prefer a more “look at me” strapon sex experience. These also offer more control when it comes to thrusting, which is important for some queer and lesbian couples. Joque Strap On Harnesses are a popular choice for queer and lesbian couples who want a harness that features straps but still want a simple setup that does not require much adjustment. If you need any more help in choosing the perfect strapon harness to enhance your sex life, our team of sexperts are on hand to offer you support and advice. Remember, all our sex toys and accessories are made by lesbians for lesbians, so you know you are in safe hands when you select us as your sex toy supplier of choice!
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HARNESSES

Our harnesses are made by lesbians. We carry the jock strap adjustable harness or boxer brief harness.

Both types feature an elastic o’ring to place the dildo. Our harnesses are compatible with double dildos and strapless dildos. Just push the dildo from the inside until it is at the base. You are ready for strap-on play.