Our underwear for strapons designs come in a wide variety of sizes and styles, with
strap on dildos to deliver all kinds of penetrative pleasure. If you are not sure what size you should order, take a look at our Size Guide, which will help you select the right underwear strap-on for your body.
When it comes to choosing the perfect strap-on underwear, the most important thing to focus on is fit. Whether you choose boxer harness, brief harness, or panty dildos, strap-on underwear should fit snugly around your body and support the weight of your chosen dildo without any discomfort.
Make sure to get comfortable with your strap-on underwear and dildo
If you are new to using strap-on underwear it can be a good idea to get used to wearing your strap-on underwear and dildo combination around the house while you are doing non-sexual things. Wear it while washing up, cleaning the house or while watching TV. Get used to the feeling of having a dildo attached to your body and how it feels as you move around. The more comfortable and natural the strap-on underwear and dildo feel the greater confidence you will have when it’s time to get sexual with your partner.
Try Masturbating while wearing your strap-on underwear and dildo
Once your housework is done and you’re looking for a bit of solo pleasure and relaxation, try masturbating while wearing your strap-on underwear and dildo. Get used to the feeling of the dildo by touching it while you pleasure yourself. The more connected you feel to your strap-on underwear and dildo the more pleasurable it will be when you are with your partner!
Try not to go overboard with your thrusting!
Thrusting during penetrative sex can feel supremely weird to begin with if you are not used to doing it. There can be a tendency to overdo it and go overboard with the motions, maybe in a comical way which is probably not what you are going for unless you are in the mood for a giggle. Instead, get used to slow, subtle and purposeful thrusting movements until you get comfortable with a thrusting action and of course, once you are there you can make it your own and do what makes you and your partner feel good
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Looking to invest in a higher quality strap-on, have a look at the Spareparts Hardwear brand of harness underwear. Spareparts Hardwear harnesses offer quality that will last for years, making them an investment that you’ll never regret.
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