Wet For Her - The Lesbian Sex Blog

  • What’s the Buzz About Bullet Vibrators?
  • 2020 Holiday Gift Guide

    The holiday season is just around the corner and 2020 is nearing its end. December is a high stress month in any year, but now it’s more important than ever to creatively stay connected to yourself and your partner. What better way to say “I love you” than to give the gift of orgasms?

    The end of the year is also the culmination of the solar cycle, with the winter solstice marking the darkest (and longest) night of the year. We say, embrace the night! Light a few candles, pull out the flannel sheets, and enjoy sumptuous hours of discovering new ways to maintain the heat. From simple stocking stuffers to the dildo of her dreams, we’ve got an entire Gift Guide that breaks down all the ways to get Wet For Her this holiday season.


  • More Ways To Play During Strap-On Sex

    This Isn’t Your First Rodeo

    For folks who love strap-on sex, a harness can become something of a second skin. Harnesses and Double-Dildos offer hands-free intimacy and pleasure to both parties. However, more than just sex toys, strap-ons can open whole new arenas for sexual play on an individual and partnered level.

    If you’re new to strap-on sex, check out our Strap-Ons: Where To Start? post for tips on buying and using your first harness. This is also a great guide to get a sense of the variety available if you want to switch up your harness style

  • We're Thankful For The Trevor Project
  • Introducing Role Play Into Your Sex Life
  • Guide To Spanking


    Let your fantasies run wild. Get creative enough and you can work a good spank into almost any roleplay fantasy. Common themes include changing age, gender, or sexual orientation; but really any aspect of your character can be evolved. This might involve creating a temporary power play dynamic, even if that is outside the norm for your relationship.

  • Celebrating Bisexual Visibility Day

    Any Percentage Is “Enough”

    As a a female-lead queer business, Wet For Her understands that sexuality isn’t simple. Our community is built by and for women who love women. While this is our truth, we know that love is vast and complex. Many women who love women also love other genders, and we want those folks to feel welcome and valid here too.

  • Heatwave Sex Tips

    Cultivate Your Own Chill

    Temperature play can be fun in any weather, but when the outside world reaches extreme heat you may find your body shivering with delight at the thought of an icy cold touch. The heatwave is your excuse to lean into all things chilly! The hotter your body is, the more intense (and pleasurable) the introduction of cold will be for your senses.

  • Guide to Transmasculine Toys

    Open Doors Mean Fewer Gatekeepers

    Our founding mission was to amplify lesbian voices and design sex toys that focus on women’s pleasure. Back in 2009 the majority of sex toy products hitting the market targeted heterosexual couples. Single or queer women were an afterthought to the industry, or erased entirely. So we started Wet For Her to promote pleasure and healthy sexuality for lesbian and bisexual women. 

    As our company has grown and evolved, so has our community. Our awareness has grown too. We know that not everyone who shops with us identifies as a lesbian or even as a woman. Transgender communities are especially vulnerable to erasure, even though their presence is deeply intertwined with the “L” in LGBTQ’s shared history. 

    With this in mind, our online shop offers a curated collection of transmasculine focused products. Much more than sex toys, these gender-affirming tools connect trans folks to their bodies and sexuality in deeper and more radical way. 

  • Science Of Sex Dreams

    While You Were Sleeping

    Sleeping is a critical part of the human body’s restorative process. Taking a nightly pause lets your body repair damaged cells, produce hormones, and calm the autonomic nervous system. It's also when your brain converts information collected that day into long-term memories.