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The first official Valentine's Day is subject to debate. Many attribute the holiday to Pope Gelasius who declared February 14th a day of feasts to celebrate the martyred Saint Valentine. This festival replaced Lupercalia, the pagan holiday of fertility and sex. Over the years the meaning and celebration style has evolved, but Cupid the Roman God of Love remains connected to the holiday.

The next time you shrug off astrology as the source of the world’s cheesiest pickup lines, think again. Much can be learned from studying archetypes, and the zodiac signs are one of humanity’s oldest traditions for considering personality types.

When it comes to female erogenous zones, there seems to be an outdated list floating around. This list focuses on only a few obvious spots, such as the clitoris and nipples. Yet, there are so many other sexually-arousing areas to explore!

If you’re experiencing a low-sex drive right now, you’re not alone. An American study in the journal Jama Network Open found that people are having less sex than ever before, and diminishing libidos are trending worldwide. Psychologist Jean Twenge, who studies Americans' sex lives, told Insider that multiple factors are driving the decline in sexual activity, and as a global pandemic drags on, its ramifications will continue to deflate our desire. Below are a few reasons why you may have lost your libido and some suggestions for how to get it back.

Bullet vibrators might be tiny, but they pack a real punch. Keep reading to learn more about these discrete but buzz-worthy toys.

The holiday season is just around the corner and 2020 is nearing its end. December is a high stress month in any year, but now it’s more important than ever to creatively stay connected to yourself and your partner. What better way to say “I love you” than to give the gift of orgasms?

The end of the year is also the culmination of the solar cycle, with the winter solstice marking the darkest (and longest) night of the year. We say, embrace the night! Light a few candles, pull out the flannel sheets, and enjoy sumptuous hours of discovering new ways to maintain the heat. From simple stocking stuffers to the dildo of her dreams, we’ve got an entire Gift Guide that breaks down all the ways to get Wet For Her this holiday season.

 

This Isn’t Your First Rodeo

For folks who love strap-on sex, a harness can become something of a second skin. Harnesses and Double-Dildos offer hands-free intimacy and pleasure to both parties. However, more than just sex toys, strap-ons can open whole new arenas for sexual play on an individual and partnered level.

If you’re new to strap-on sex, check out our Strap-Ons: Where To Start? post for tips on buying and using your first harness. This is also a great guide to get a sense of the variety available if you want to switch up your harness style

Roleplay

Let your fantasies run wild. Get creative enough and you can work a good spank into almost any roleplay fantasy. Common themes include changing age, gender, or sexual orientation; but really any aspect of your character can be evolved. This might involve creating a temporary power play dynamic, even if that is outside the norm for your relationship.