STRAP-ON HARNESS KITS

If you are new to the exciting world of strap-on sex, then a strap-on harness kit for beginners is just what you need. Save up to 35% by combining a harness and a strap-on.

Explore the latest innovations in strap-on sex toys and kits for less with our best-selling starter bundles that include everything you need to introduce strap on sex into your sex life. Whether you are looking for a strap on dildo that vibrates for extra clitoral stimulation or harness kits that are compatible with multiple-sized dildos, you are guaranteed to find the best queer and lesbian strap on kits and starter bundles when you shop with us at Wetforher.com.

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  1. Best strap-ons for lesbians. Build Your Strap-on Kit : 1 Harness + 1  Strap-on 35% Off Bestseller
    Build Your Pack - Up to 35% Off : 1 Harness + 1 Strap-On + Accessories (optional)

    Starting at $72.77 Regular Price $124.90

     
     
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  2. STRAP-ON FOR LESBIAN HARNESS ADJUSTABLE O'RING BLACK PLUS SIZE DILDO STRAP-ON LESBIAN SEX TOYS
    StartHer™ Kit Harness and Strap-on Dildo
    $44.96 -15%
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  3. STRAPON FOR LESBIAN SEX TOYS DILDO VIBRATOR COUPLE BOXER HARNESS VIBRATING BONDAGE FURNITURE PLUGS LUBRICANTS HOLLOW Bestseller
    Pack Boxer Harness Black XS-5XL + Strap-On Dildo Five
    $83.92 -20%
    $104.90 You save  $20.98
     
     
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  4. STRAPON FOR LESBIAN SEX TOYS ADJUSTABLE PRICE JOCK HARNESS O RING BONDAGE PLUG COUPLE DILDO PRICE VIBRATORS STRAP-ONS DILDOS HOLLOW Bestseller
    Pack Jock Harness Black XS-5X + Strap-on Dildo Five
    $119.95 -20%
    $149.40 You save  $29.45
     
     
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  5. STRAPON FOR LESBIANS HARNESS JOCK LESBIAN SEX TOYS DILDO COMBO COUPLE SEX PENETRATION O'RING WOMEN BLACK ADJUSTABLE Bestseller
    Pack Jock Black Harness XS-5X + Fusion Strap-On Dildo
    $126.17 -20%
    $157.40 You save  $31.23
     
     
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  6. BRIEF HARNESS BLACK VIBRATOR RODEOH COUPLE STRAP-ON DILDO SEX TOY KIT FURNITURE MATERIAL LUBRICANT LEATHER HOLLOW BEADS Bestseller
    Pack Brief Harness Black XS-5XL + Strap-On Dildo Five
    $83.92 -20%
    $104.90 You save  $20.98
     
     
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  7. Pack Jock Harness XS-5X + Fusion 2.0 Vibrating Strap-On Dildo
    Pack Jock Harness XS-5X + Fusion 2.0 Vibrating Strap-On Dildo
    $152.83 -15%
    $179.35 You save  $26.52
     
     
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  8. LESBIAN GIFT CARD HARNESS DILDO STRAPON SEX TOY STRAP ON COUPLE SEX Bestseller
    e-Gift Card - Buy Now and Order later together
    From $10.00
     
     
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  9. STRAPON FOR LESBIAN SEX TOYS DILDO INCHES SEX TOY PRICE TOMBOI HARNESS SPAREPARTS O RING COUPLES G-SPOT VIBRATOR BONDAGE
    Pack Tomboi Brief harness Red Or Black XS-5X+ Strap-On Dildo Five
    $130.41 -10%
    $144.90 You save  $14.49
     
     
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  10. STRAP ON DILDO TOMBOI HARNESS SPAREPARTS VIBRATOR MEN ANAL COUPLE BONDAGE O RING SEX TOY VIBRATORS HOLLOW BEADS
    Pack harness Tomboi Brief Black XS-5X + Strap-On Dildo Fusion
    $137.61 -10%
    $152.90 You save  $15.29
     
     
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  11. STRAP ON DILDO LESBIAN SEX TOY FIVE BLACK COUPLE HARNESS
    Pack Boxer Tomboii Black Harness XS-3X + Strap-On Dildo Five
    $166.41 -10%
    $184.90 You save  $18.49
     
     
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  12. KIT STRAPON FOR LESBIAN SEX TOYS ADJUSTABLE PRICE JOQUE HARNESS O RING BONDAGE PLUG COUPLE DILDO PRICE VIBRATORS STRAP-ONS DILDOS HOLLOW
    Pack Joque Harness Black XS-5X + Strap-On Dildo Five
    $166.41 -10%
    $184.90 You save  $18.49
     
     
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  13. STRAPON FOR LESBIAN SEX TOYS DILDO FUSION ADJUSTABLE JOQUE HARNESS SPAREPARTS ANAL MEN BONDAGE VIBRATOR PLUG LUBRICANT STRAP DILDO MATERIAL LEATHER
    Pack Joque Black Harness XS-5X + Fusion Strap-On Dildo
    $173.61 -10%
    $192.90 You save  $19.29
     
     
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  14. STRAP-ON DILDO FUSION LINGERIE O RING SASHA HARNESS SPAREPARTS ANAL MEN PLUG VIBRATING BONDAGE KIT SEX TOY STRAP DILDO VIBRATOR
    Pack Sasha Harness Black XS-3X + Strap-On Dildo Fusion
    $200.61 -10%
    $222.90 You save  $22.29
     
     
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  15. STRAP-ON DILDO LESBIAN SEX TOYS COUPLE VIBRATOR HARNESS WOMEN MASTURBATION CLITORIS STIMULATION ORGASMS PLEASURE Bestseller
    WowHer® Wearable Ring and Clit Vibrator
    $40.45 -19%
    $49.95 You save  $9.5
     
     
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  16. RECHARGEABLE BULLET VIBRATOR 5 SPEEDS 2.25 INCH Bestseller
    Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator 5 Speeds 2.25 Inch
     
     
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    Buffer rings - 4 Depth Controlled penetration strap-on rings - Rainbow
     
     
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  18. STRAPON DILDO STABILIZER HARNESS SPAREPARTS DILDO  SPAREPARTS LESBIAN PLEASURE PENETRATION
    O-Ring Strap-on Dildo Stabilizer SpareParts
    $13.95
     
     
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FAQ

What makes a good beginner strapon kit?

The best beginner strapon kit will contain everything you need to enjoy hands-free penetrative sex with your partner. Most strap on starter kits contain a strap on dildo and a compatible harness, as these are the two main items that you need to enjoy hands-free play with your partner. Even if you are an experienced user of sex toys, it is better to get a beginner strapon kit to start. There are many different strap on kits on the market, with options to suit women of all sizes and desires. If you are new to strap on sex, then it is a good idea to start with a smaller silicone dildo size, especially if you want to experiment with anal play. The type of harness that you choose is completely down to personal preference and will be dependent on whether you favor comfort or style. You can also find starter strap on kits that contain other sex toy accessories, such as bullet vibrators, which can be used to give clitoral stimulation, and lubricant, which is a must for anal penetration. If you are not sure what sized dildo you want to use, you might want to purchase a strapon kit that comes with multiple strap on dildos, including the double dildo. This will allow you can experiment and find out which size works best for you and your partner.

What’s the best strapon kit?

There are a number of top-rated strapon kits on the market, and here at Wetforher.com, we have all the best beginner strapon kits and bundles for you to choose from. If you want the best strapon dildo kit that includes a harness and strap on dildo, then we recommend the RodeoH Brief Harness and Strap On Kit. RodeoH is an American-based company that specializes in making harnesses for lesbians and offers affordable harness panties that are both sexy and comfortable to wear. Alternatively, if you are willing to invest a little more in a strapon kit, then you can’t beat SpareParts strap on harnesses that offer superior support, allows for maximum thrust, and is incredibly durable. This will leave you with no worries when you start to get down to business with your partner. Of course, finding the best strap on kit is predominantly down to personal preference and can be a case of trial and error to see what works for you as a couple. If you order a strap on kit from Wetforher.com and you are not happy with the fit of the harness, we will be more than happy to exchange this for you and help you find the right size harness. There are plenty of options to choose from, and sometimes it will take trying a few to figure out what you get on best with. Other times, you will just know. You may even like to have several options to shake up the experience each time!

Where can I find out more about harness sizes?

If you are not sure what harness size to buy, then we are more than happy to help you with this. All the strap on harnesses available on our website come with a size guide so that you can see exactly what size you or your partner need. If you are opting for an underwear-style harness, then this is very straightforward as you simply pick the correct size based on your or your partner’s measurements. It is worth noting that you want the harness to fit snugly but not too tight that it feels uncomfortable, as this will make your strap on sex experience less satisfying. On the other hand, if you prefer a strap on harness that features straps, these can be adjusted to achieve the perfect fit, and they come in a wide variety of sizes from XXS to 5XL. Still struggling with our harness sizes? Why not get in touch with us directly and let us help you find the right size strap on harness for you and your partner? We are experts in queer and lesbian sex toys and accessories, and if there is something you need to know about harnesses and choosing the right harness size, we are guaranteed to know it.

Which kit is right for me?

When it comes to finding the perfect strapon starter kit, you first need to think about what it is that you and your partner want from strap on sex. Consider: • Do you want to just try vaginal penetration, or are you also interested in exploring anal play? • Do you want to enjoy the feeling of ejaculation? • Do you want to take turns being the wearer and the receiver? • What type of strap on dildo do you want to use? • Do you want to be able to use different sizes of dildos? All of the above questions will help you to identify what type of strap on starter kit is right for your sex life. Take some time to think over the answers. For instance, if you answered yes to liking feeling ejaculation inside you, you should opt for a hollow strap product. If you don’t know what you like, you may be better off keeping it simple and starting with the basics. Here at Wetforher.com, we have several top-rated strap on starter kits for you to choose from – explore each one below!

Tomboi Brief Harness & Strap on Sex Toy

If you want harness underwear that offers comfort and ease of use, then the Tomboi brief harness is the perfect choice for you. Available in sizes XXS to 5XL, these harness briefs look exactly like normal underwear but with the addition of the elastic O-ring, which fits all our strap on dildos, including double dildos. They are machine washable and come with a vibrating option. This strap on starter kit also comes with our popular queer and lesbian strap on sex toy Five, which is made from 100% medical grade silicone. If your partner is a beginner to strap on sex or you are, taking it back to basics with this one is ideal.

Jock Strap On Harness & Strap on Sex Toy

If you prefer a more sexy and sultry harness, then the Joque Strap On Harness is the one for you. A two-strap harness that can be easily adjusted to fit your or your partner’s body, this strap on starter kit also comes with the pink dildo Five. A great choice for those who are new to strap on sex and have a limited budget, this strap on starter kit is also double dildo compatible and has a vibrating option for those who want clitoral stimulation. Both enjoy the penetration and be closer than ever before! The accompanying strap-on dildo boasts a sleek design and is curved for g-spot stimulation, and it can also be used with or without the Joque strap on harness.

Pack Shorty Brief Harness & Strap on Sex Toy

Our most affordable strap on starter kit, this absolute bargain comes with the stylish and comfortable shorty harness and the dildo Five. The shorty harness is made from 95% cotton, which means it feels super soft against the skin and can be worn all day and night, so you can get it on whenever the mood takes you. It is available in sizes small, medium, large, and extra-large, so you can wear it comfortably for as long as you want to. The dildo Five pairs perfectly with the shorty harness and boast a realistic dildo shape that promises to hit all the right spots! It may just become your new favorite.

Find the perfect strap on starter kit at Wetforher.com

Whether you are new to strap on sex or you are strap on play expert, we can help you enjoy strap on sex with your partner to the max. If you are still not sure what strap on starter kit or bundle to choose or you want to find out more about interesting harnesses like the strapless strap option, get in touch with our friendly and knowledgeable team of sexperts here and let us help you find the perfect dildo and harness kits to take your sex life to the next level.

Strap on Kit Extras

There is no reason why you can’t add some sexy extras to your selected strap on starter kit to make your strap on sex experience even more mind-blowing. If you are going to double up on strap on kit must-haves, it has to be these extras! If you love clitoral stimulation – and who doesn’t? – why not treat yourself to the Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator that boasts 5 speeds? This small but powerful vibrator can be used with your chosen strapon harness or on its own. Plus, it boasts a remote control feature so you can tantalize and tease your partner until they beg you to stop! If you are struggling with strap on sex, then the Spareparts O-Ring Dildo Stabilizer is just what you need. A must-have accessory for your strap on starter kit, this easy-to-use stabilizer is designed to create a larger base for small, realistic dildos and support for heavier bases. Finally, lube, lube, and lots of lube! Whatever type of strap on sex starter kit you choose, a good quality lubricant is a must, especially if you are planning on indulging in anal sex. We have a wide range of top-rated lubes for you to choose from, including silicone-based lubricants, water-based lubricants, and vegan-friendly lubricants, so start stocking up now!
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STRAP-ON HARNESS KIT

If you're ready to harness your sensuality, a harness and strap-on dildo kit from Wet For Her is perfect for playtime with your partner. Each strap-on kit features a fully compatible harness with a pleasure-packed Wet For Her dildo.

STRAP-ON HARNESSES CAN ADD A BRAND NEW DIMENSION TO YOUR SEXUAL PLAYTIME

Sexual pleasure is at its most fun when as many senses as possible are being engaged at the same time. A strap-on harness frees up your hands so that they can be used to caress and stimulate your partners' erogenous zones to the max while the dildo is held in place by the strap-on harness. With so many dildo variants to choose from to spice up your sexual playtime, you are sure to have endless amounts of fun.

The beginner strap-on harness kit is a great way to get started with your strap-on journey

Not sure if the strap-on harness is your thing or which one to buy? The beginner strap-on harness kit kit is made for you! Each beginner strap-on harness kit comes with a harness and compatible dildo to make getting started as easy as possible for you. Once you are more experienced you can confidently choose between different harnesses and dildos and mix and match to your pleasure.

How do I use a strap-on harness?

Each harness has an O-ring connector where the dildo gets inserted. The dildo is then securely held in place and ready for penetration, whether that be vaginal or anal, it’s all for you to explore and have fun with. On our product pages, you will find instructional videos to show you how to correctly put on the strap-on harness and how to choose the right size for you.

The strap-on kits are made in the United States with the best quality materials available, like 100% medical-grade silicone. You can choose a Five (flat base) or Fusion (curved base) strap-on dildo set, each of which is non-phallic and crafted with lesbian couples and queer sex in mind. Each harness works with Spareparts O'Rings that follow your exact movements and stay in place while you're having fun. A dildo with a harness can be used for hands-free lovemaking, as well as pegging and all sorts of anal play. Both dildo and harness have different options to choose from — Joque, Tomboi, and Sasha styles are available in boxer and brief designs so you can get the look you (and your partner) desire. You can even opt to add a WowHer™ clitoris ring vibrator to have a full sex toy kit in your arsenal of excitement. Find the strap-on harness and dildo kit of your dreams at Wet For Her, and take your partner to new planes of pleasure.