GENDER AFFIRMING GEAR

We believe all genders are perfect; especially yours.

We also believe that body and gender-affirming products such as FTM packers, dildos, strap-ons, binders are incredibly empowering. With this and our beloved community in mind, we have expanded our collection of sex toys and gender-affirming products like packers, binders, and breast forms.

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  1. Vixen Outlaw Silicone Pack 'n Play Skin Tones 8.5" - Large
    Vixen Outlaw Silicone Pack 'n Play Skin Tones 8.5" - Large
     
     
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  2. STRAP-ON DILDO DILATORS SEX TOY HARNESS COUPLE KIT SHOP PLUG RING KIT INCHES DILDOS PLUGS STRAP-ONS POWER PROSTATE ANAL TOYS SIG
    5 Piece Silicone Dilator strap-on dildo Set
    $99.95 -20%
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  3. ohnut dildo ring depth control strapon double dildo penetration comfortable woman penetration
    Buffer rings - 4 Depth Controlled penetration strap-on rings - Rainbow
     
     
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  4. PETE FREESTYLE PACKER STP S-3X
    SpareParts Pete Freestyle Packing Jock - S-3X
    $34.95 -13%
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  5. Jock Strap-on Harness Adjustable Plus size Bestseller
    Jock Style Adjustable Strap On Harness Black- XS-5X
    $89.95 -5%
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  6. TOMBOI O RING HARNESS SPAREPARTS STRAPON FOR LESBIAN SEX TOYS DILDO ANAL PLAY COUPLE KIT VIBRATORS RINGS REMOTE HEALTH
    Tomboi - Brief Harness by Spareparts
    $89.95
     
     
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  7. Boxer Black Harness XS to 5X for strap-on sex toys. Bestseller
    Boxer Black Underwear Strap-on Harness O'Ring & Packer - XS-5X
    $44.95 -10%
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  8. Boxer Brief Grey O'Ring Strap-On Harness XS-5X Bestseller
    Boxer Grey Underwear Strap-on Harness O'Ring & Packer - XS-5X
    $44.95 -10%
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  9. LESBIAN GIFT CARD HARNESS DILDO STRAPON SEX TOY STRAP ON COUPLE SEX Bestseller
    e-Gift Card - Buy Now and Order later together
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  10. LUBRICANT SPERM EJUCALATING SQUIRTING DILDO SEX TOY WOMAN MEN PENIS
    Semen-Like Body Glide - Splooge Juice white 4oz
    $15.95
     
     
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  11. Stealth Bros. Jr. Dopp Discreet Injectables Kit - Pride Edition
    Stealth Bros. Jr. Dopp Discreet Injectables Kit - Pride Edition
     
     
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  12. TRANS TAPE TRANSGENDER TRANSTAPE CHEST SKIN TONES BINDING LESBIANS BODY TRANSFORMATION GENDER AFFIRMING
    TransTape Waterproof Body Tape and Nipple Guards Kit - 4 Skin Tones
    $14.50
     
     
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  13. Stealth Bros. Jr. Dopp Discreet Injectables Kit - Faux Leather
    Stealth Bros. Jr. Dopp Discreet Injectables Kit - Faux Leather
     
     
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  14. STRAP-ON DILDO HARNESS SILICONE SKIN TONES REALISTIC PENETRATION ANAL HOLLOWAY WOMEN PLEASURE G SPOT
    Vixen Mustang Realistic Strap-on dildo 6.5 Inch - Large
    $122.40 -10%
    $136.00 You save  $13.6
     
     
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  15. STRAPON DILDO STABILIZER HARNESS SPAREPARTS DILDO  SPAREPARTS LESBIAN PLEASURE PENETRATION
    O-Ring Strap-on Dildo Stabilizer SpareParts
    $13.95
     
     
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  16. STRAP-ON DILDO LESBIAN COUPLES HARNESS SQUIRTING SEX TOY BLACK TO INSEMINATE SPERM  FOR WOMEN
    Squirting Silicone Strap On Dildo - Black
    $89.95
     
     
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  17. STRAP-ON DILDO LESBIAN HARNESS SQUIRTING SEX TOY BLACK TO INSEMINATE SPERM  FOR WOMEN
    Squirting Silicone Strap On Dildo - Vanilla
    $89.95
     
     
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  18. STRAP-ON DILDO HARNESS SILICONE SKIN TONES REALISTIC PENETRATION ANAL HOLLOWAY WOMEN PLEASURE G SPOT Bestseller
    Vixen Spur Petite Curved Realistic Strap-on dildo 4.75 Inch - Small
    $86.40 -10%
    $96.00 You save  $9.6
     
     
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  19. EXO TRANSGENDER PACKER DILDO STRAPON HARNESS FTM TRANS GENDER
    Exo Hands-Free Pleasure Wearable Genital Stimulator
     
     
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  20. Cross Gender Fun for Everyone
    Cross Gender Fun for Everyone
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  21. STRAP-ON DILDO HARNESS SILICONE SKIN TONES REALISTIC PENETRATION ANAL HOLLOWAY WOMEN PLEASURE G SPOT
    Vixen Maverick Realistic Strap-on dildo 7 Inch - Large
    $126.00 -10%
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  22. SLIQUID SATIN +AGE WATER BASE
    SATIN LUBE WATER BASE - SPECIAL INTIMATE DRYNESS
    $9.95 -0%
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  23. Dame Arousal Serum - 1 oz
    Dame Arousal Serum - 1 oz
    $30.00
     
     
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  24. Dame Pom Flexible Curved Rechargeable Vibrator
    Dame Pom Flexible Curved Rechargeable Vibrator
    $85.55 -10%
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FAQ

What is the purpose of a packer?

A packer is a phallic shaped object that is worn inside the underwear of the user to give off the appearance of a bulge or having a penis.

What is a packer dildo / Pack 'n Play?

Some packers can double as dildos (also known as a "Pack n' Play") and tend to be incredibly versatile and useful. A packer dildo is simply a dildo that doubles as a packer. They can be tucked or untucked and boast a realistic texture, feel, and look like a penis. They often have a firm enough core for penetration, but a soft enough exterior for packing.

Check out Wet For Her's selection of Pack n' Plays:
Shilo Pack n' Play Dildo and Packer
Carter Pack n' Play Dildo and Packer
Goodfella Pack n' Play Dildo and Packer

What is a STP (stand to pee) packer? Do they work?

STP (stand to pee) packers are devices that act as a funnel to help people urinate without sitting down. They are meant to aid in transitioning and can help people get the feel of using the bathroom while standing up. Yes, they do work! Albeit, they require quite a bit of practice getting used to them. Some people swear by them, while others find them too difficult to use. Don’t let that deter you though! STPs are fully practical, functional, and you can 100% teach yourself to use them as most do come with in depth instructions.

We recommend practicing in the shower with them where cleaning up is easier. Remember to be patient with yourself and your body if it is your first time using a STP. Some people end up not using them out of comfortability, while others prefer to use them to ease navigating public restrooms.

Our STP, the “Sam”, is available on our site and is created from soft silicone and fits inside regular underwear or packing underwear.

Can a packer be used as a sex toy?

Not all packers can be used as dildos. Unless otherwise indicated, most packers have a core that is not quite firm enough to be effectively used for penetration. Even so, packers are great for grinding, dry humping and foreplay!

However, some packers can double as sex toys (also known as a "Pack n' Play") and tend to be incredibly versatile and useful. They can be tucked or untucked and boast a realistic texture, feel, and look like a penis. Our Shiloh, Carter and Goodfella pack n' plays double as dildos. Check them out on the Wet for Her website here:
Shilo Pack n' Play Dildo and Packer
Carter Pack n' Play Dildo and Packer
Goodfella Pack n' Play Dildo and Packer

Are packers safe to wear while swimming?

Yes, packers are safe to wear while swimming and are a great way to validate your body while enjoying yourself. Our packers are made from silicone and are 100% waterproof. Adjust them with a speedo or some packing underwear and you should be fine and dandy! If you want to be extra secure the next time you go swimming or if it's your first time wearing a packer while swimming, we recommend using packing underwear and some breathable swimming trunks.

How do I wear a packer?

You’ll want to decide whether you will be needing packing underwear to help keep your packer in place. Of course, regular underwear, such as boy shorts or boxer briefs will work great too, but some individuals prefer the extra padding and support to maintain the packer in place. Some prefer a lower profile packer holding harness that can be worn underneath your underwear or without underwear. Once you have found the optimal pair of underwear for yourself, you’re going to want to adjust your packer correctly so it is not positioned too high or too low. Aligning the base of your packer with the base of your sweet spot would work best. Try practicing wearing your packer around your house for starters. Eventually, you can start building up your confidence with your packer by running errands while wearing it and then wearing it in public whenever you’re ready!

What kind of underwear will I need for packing?

You can use packing underwear, which is underwear specially designed to hold packers and STPs. Regular underwear will work just fine too, just make sure it's tight enough to securely hold your packer without much fuss. Additionally, you can consider getting enhanced underwear, a type of underwear meant to enhance bulges. This can be a great way to practice having a bulge without a packer and even add on to your current packer.

What different kinds of packers are there?

Packers come in a variety of shapes, looks, and feels. Packers can come with an uncircumcised look, with foreskin, or can appear erect as dildos. Check out our packers here!

What is the best way to clean a packer or STP?

Packers and STPs can be cleaned with a sex toy cleanser, preferably one that is phthalate and paraben free. You can also use an antibacterial soap and warm water to wash it off and wipe it down with a clean cloth.

How can I match my color?

Matching your color can be intimidating, as there tend to be various options for color matching, but we got you covered! You’ll want to match the color by looking at either large parts of your body, such as your legs, arms, and abdomen. Select which color matches you best and go from there. Our packers come in a range of colors, from cashew, caramel, hazelnut, and chocolate.

Do packers come in different positions?

Packers can be placed inside your underwear for everyday use or can be used as a sex toy for erect models, or those that are dildos. They should be positioned in the front of your crotch. They usually come as soft or erect.
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GENDER AFFIRMING SEX TOYS & GEAR

The world of gender affirming gear has come a long way in recent years, and here at Wet For Her, we are at the forefront of this innovation.

Whether you are looking for high-quality transmasculine (FTM) packers, transgender and gender non-conforming affirming (FTM) sex toys, didlos, plus size strap-ons, chest binders, breast forms, plus size strap ons, chest binders, breast forms, or hormone therapy injection kits, we have all the products you need to feel comfortable in your own skin and enjoy your sex life to the max.

What are packers and what are the different types of packers available?

Packers are made to give the impression you are packing a penis in your pants, hence the name!

There are many reasons why people use packers including getting comfortable with male genitalia before a transition or purely for the kick or experience.

As we all know there is no right or wrong or one standard way to have sex. We all have our different wants and desires so packing is one way to experience or show the presence of a penis if you don’t have one.

Maybe your partner gets turned on by the big bulge in your panties or maybe you’re turned on by the big bulge in your pants, all cool.

One type of packer is the STP packer (stand to pee), this packer allows you to pee standing up as the name suggests!

There are also hard packers which are firmer and allow for penetration even though they are not exactly like dildos.

There are also soft packers which give the impression of an un-erect penis under the pants complete with testicles.

If you want to experience a bulge in your pants, see what it’s like to pee standing up or penetrate your partner with something other than a dildo a packer could be just the thing!

If you are interested in packing but not sure where to start, we offer a wide range of dildo packers, with sizes and styles to suit all needs. For a realistic bulge, we provide flesh-colored transmasculine packers complete with floating testicles that are ideal for people with bottom dysphoria. Choose from our circumcised transmasculine packers and our uncircumcised transmasculine packers, both of which are made to last.

For those that want a new transmasculine sex toy, we offer an exciting array of squirting strap-on dildos that promise to transform insemination and conception for lesbian, transgender, or gender non-conforming couples wishing to start a family. Available in several colors, these best-selling strap-on dildos provide both function and fun. Check out our compatible strap on harness collection here.

We also offer silicone packers that are perfect for packing and penetration, providing G-spot stimulation for maximum pleasure. This premium line of packer trans products are compatible with many of our underwear for strap on garments so you can experience thrilling, hands-free sex with your partner.

As one of the leading retailers in queer and lesbian sex toys, our transmasculine packers are the best you’ll find, providing gender euphoria and allowing you to be your true self.

We believe all genders are perfect, especially yours. We also believe that body and gender affirming products are incredibly empowering. With this and our beloved community in mind, we have expanded our collection of toys and gender affirming products like packers, binders and breast forms.