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Roleplay

Let your fantasies run wild. Get creative enough and you can work a good spank into almost any roleplay fantasy. Common themes include changing age, gender, or sexual orientation; but really any aspect of your character can be evolved. This might involve creating a temporary power play dynamic, even if that is outside the norm for your relationship.

Cultivate Your Own Chill

Temperature play can be fun in any weather, but when the outside world reaches extreme heat you may find your body shivering with delight at the thought of an icy cold touch. The heatwave is your excuse to lean into all things chilly! The hotter your body is, the more intense (and pleasurable) the introduction of cold will be for your senses.

Open Doors Mean Fewer Gatekeepers

Our founding mission was to amplify lesbian voices and design sex toys that focus on women’s pleasure. Back in 2009 the majority of sex toy products hitting the market targeted heterosexual couples. Single or queer women were an afterthought to the industry, or erased entirely. So we started Wet For Her to promote pleasure and healthy sexuality for lesbian and bisexual women. 

As our company has grown and evolved, so has our community. Our awareness has grown too. We know that not everyone who shops with us identifies as a lesbian or even as a woman. Transgender communities are especially vulnerable to erasure, even though their presence is deeply intertwined with the “L” in LGBTQ’s shared history. 

With this in mind, our online shop offers a curated collection of transmasculine focused products. Much more than sex toys, these gender-affirming tools connect trans folks to their bodies and sexuality in deeper and more radical way. 

WE CAME, WE SAW, WE SURVEYED 

Listening and valuing the feedback we receive from our community is central to the Wet For Her mission. In an industry that’s dominated by male's visions, we originally set out to break the (dildo) mold and create completely new objects of pleasure with lesbians in mind. As the years have flown by, the Wet For Her product line has expanded to six unique toys and our market reach has expanded to a global scale. 

Safe Cybering

Social distancing measures have disrupted the dating and sex lives of most people. Humans are social creatures that as a group are a pretty horny bunch, so this whole staying-inside-alone thing has required a massive paradigm shift. If you weren’t using your digital devices for sexy-times pre-pandemic, chances are it has crossed your mind since this all started.

A Vibrator In Hand Is Worth Two In Your Bush

That’s how the proverb goes, right? Maybe it’s the other way around. In any case, we think vibrators are extremely valuable both in your hand *and* your bush. Since May is International Masturbation Month, we decided to celebrate our favorite solo play toys!

Water is Elemental

Social distancing doesn't have to mean disconnecting. Still, many folks are finding it hard to let go of anxieties and stay connected to their own bodies. Water can be a healing tool that grounds the present moment and helps soothe mind and body. Taking a hot bath or shower can be one of the best ways to reconnect with your physical self. 

Strap-on play has come a long way since the 1980s, when the only available harnesses were big, bulky, uncomfortable, and complicated. Between the expensive leather harnesses with buckles, awkward looking plastic harnesses, and affordable (but flimsy) washable harnesses, the choices women today have are varied – but very few of those styles have been designed by actual harness users. As a result, despite the variety available in harnesses, many women steer away from using a harness with their partners, because they find the overwhelming number of options confusing.

Thankfully, times have changed, and Wet For Her® is pleased to help you learn about the new generation of harnesses!

Folks around the world are self-isolating, including the Wet For Her team. Social distancing is the best way to protect ourselves, our loved ones, and the healthcare workers on the front lines keeping us safe.

Still, if touch is your love language, these are hard times. Sex isn’t the solution to our big picture woes, but orgasms are a great stress reliever, mood booster, and offer immune system support. Whether you’re weathering this storm solo or quarantining with your partner, this is an opportunity to explore our list of 14 sexy indoor activities!

None of us expected 2020 to turn out like this! If you’d have asked us in January if we’d like to be holed up with no-one but our sweetheart to spend time with we might have said “hell yes, sounds idyllic” but after a week or so of living in lockdown you may be more aware of your lover’s vices than their virtues. And we’re talking leaving panties on the floor in a slob not a sexy way!

Lockdown will put strain on the wellbeing of yourself, your loved ones and your relationships - whether you live together or not - it’s important that you take care of yourself and each other at stressful times so we’ve gathered together some advice on how to maintain intimacy with your lover during troubled times.