Posts tagged 'vibrator'

Is there anything more quintessentially lesbian than flannel, feelings, or fingering? Many would argue scissoring belongs on that list... and we’re not talking the art-and-crafts kind.

Little evokes as much controversy in the lesbian community than the status of scissoring. Is it merely a fantasy constructed for the male gaze, fueled by the heteropatriarchal norms of the pornography industry? Or is it an actual sexual position beloved by lady queers?

Spoiler alert: it’s the latter!

Riding The Wave

While orgasms don’t always have to be the focus of great sex, intentionally taking charge of when, how, and iforgasm occurs can be a powerful and potent aphrodisiac. 

Orgasm control, also called edging or surfing, is the process of getting to the brink of orgasm, stopping or slowing until arousal drops, and then coming back to the edge again. Repeat the process for a truly earth-shattering release once climax is finally reached.